First... Sherri shares what can happen when you
intentionally apply the law of attraction to improve your
relationship and then she asks a question about how to use
the law of attraction to get her honey to quit smoking and
start eating healthier.
More proof that you can truly use the secret law of
attraction to manifest the relationship you desire.
"Thank you so much for all of your insight. This law of
attraction stuff really works. The first thing was my
marriage - it is better than ever! Synchronicities happen
all the time, I know that it is the Law of Attraction.
Now, my question: What words can I affirm or use in my
gratitude journal for my husband to quit smoking and lose
weight? I feel that I do my part, cook the proper foods, and
set an example. I don't harp or nag him and I have never
smoked. Recently, he has started talking about changing, but
that is as far as it has gone. I could really use some more
of your insight. Thank you." - Sherri
A: First, be sure to follow the suggestions for detaching
and loving what is in the article "How to Use the Law of
Attraction to Re-create Your Relationship".
Since 'non-smoker' still has the vibration of 'smoking', the
tricky part about manifesting a non-smoker is that we have
to focus on the essence of what a nonsmoker actually means
The following example uses the Living Vision technique (aka
Rain Dancing) with alternative affirmations to indicate what
I believe 'nonsmoker' means to me as well as what I perceive
as the essence of health conscious. You'll want to use words
that trigger your true feelings of what the pure essence
really means to you.
"I am so incredibly grateful to be in this loving
relationship that is so filled with pure health and
wholeness. We are on the same path of mutual health and
wellbeing and we enjoy taking care of ourselves physically,
mentally and spiritually.
I enjoy my honey's fresh breath in the morning and when we
embrace his sweetness and purely clean smell envelopes me.
I melt in his arms and feel safe, happy, and at peace.
We both admire and greatly appreciate each other's
commitment to our health. He is strong, centered and
capable of I take a deep breath when we hug, I lap up the
sweetness that I smell and just melt in his arms.
We are both free from any and all addictions and the
experience of physical freedom is delightful for both of us.
Together, we use positive self-talk to encourage our
commitment to health both internally and externally. I hear
my honey saying all the time, how grateful he is to feel so
free and young and healthy and respectful of his body. He
is proud of his accomplishments and proud to be treating his
body with such incredible grace and love and honoring
He feeds his body healthy, nutritious meals and I am so
inspired by his commitment. It has truly always been this
way for him. He has simply always had a desire for health
and for the foods that regenerate and restore life.
And, even when we choose to engage in less than natural
foods, our bodies are power houses of energy and restorative
faculties. Our bodies know what to do to engage in ultimate
health and wholeness for all the days of our lives, no
We both breathe deeply and naturally and have incredibly
strong cardiovascular health and vitality. We are healthy,
strong, and vibrantly youthful all the days of our lives."