I have been unable to manifest my true love.... is it possible?

Thank you for your courageous searching. Your questions inspire me. I do not know that I have the 'right' answer to your questions. However, I do believe that when we turn to the absolute Truths, we find the answers there to be consistent and dependable. It's this consistency that will provide us with the energy, inspiration and resiliency we desire. Accept these Divine Truths as our Truth and Peace begins to rule our hearts where fear once reigned.

The Law of Attraction says that whatever we focus upon expands and whatever we put our attention upon we draw into our lives.

Your inspiration to not attract any more 'Mr. Wrongs' has been (up until now) Divinely Ordered and appropriate. However, it is also in accordance to your fearful (albeit natural) thoughts that you 'might attract another Mr. Wrong' that has kept even Mr. Right away.

Our fears are simply as creative in our life as our positive intentions. Therefore, with a resolution such as, "I don't want another bad relationship", you have actually been successful at both keeping the bad away as well as the potential good.

You asked, "Do you think it is better to be single even if it goes on for years, while one is still healing?" I cannot speak for you or anyone else. However, I know that I will forever be healing, growing, and evolving. In fact, just when I think I've moved to the next level of my spiritual evolution, I am amazed at how poorly I react when confronted with a challenge that I thought I was OVER!

Alas, I have come to the realization that I will forever be a work in progress.

If I waited to be in a relationship until I was healed, I may never be in one. Is this true for you as well?

Whomever we attract into our lives at any given moment, is exactly who is supposed to be there. This relationship may or may not be our one True love that lasts forever. However, this person is there for a reason, even if it's only for a season.

It IS possible to attract your True Love by intention alone. Additionally, you can only attract a relationship that has the power to heal because it can be no other way. Every relationship is an opportunity to heal. Period. There is no exception to this rule. Yet, it is also true that you can only attract and inspire out of others what you are able to give yourself.

That is okay. Allow yourself to love more and you will attract more love. Allow yourself to accept your humanness and you will attract a mate that can accept that humanness as well.

Stay focused on what you want, not on what you don't want and you will attract it into your life. Increase your confidence that the timing is now and that you are ready.