forgiveness

[Nirakia]

I have been doing some forgiveness work, thinking of people in my past I may need to forgive.

Now, a certain person I included in my list has contacted my partner via a mutual friend to let us know her little boy is in ICU (hospital).  We were quite close to her boy when we still had contact.

Coincidence?  I think not.

[ronit]

Nirakia,
The trouble with doing forgiveness work is, that it can drag you back to the old unpleasant and painful situation and since your subconscious cannot tell the difference between then and now it will vibrate with the old vibration.
By  doing  the  EFT ' personal peace process' instead , you acknowledge and assure yourself of your acceptance and love and tap it out of your energetic system , the focus is on your loving yourself and forgiving yourself and not so much on the other person.

[dolphindream]

Nirakia~
I had a very siimilar situation.  A friend of mine that I attended her daughters Baptism had not returned my calls for over a month.
I had taken pics at the Baptism and sent them to her via e-mail.  I called and left messages and no return calls. Well four months went by and I was in the city that she lived in and when I drove by her street I blessed her, forgave her,  and let t go  Twenty minutes later I ran into her  and the baby in a store I was servicing.   No..not coincidence!

[AlwaysHappy]

Hiya All

I'm a newbie here...

Yes I totally agree with Ronits comment on the subconscious. I had do to a lot of forgiving over the last few years with family, friends ex boyfriends ...the lot. I just done it for me not fro them as I noticed that is was stopping me from trusting people in general and stopped me from healing even though I didn't think I needed to be healed.

in some of the cases like my family I could only forgive them and thereafter sever the relationship as it was not healthy. I don't feel bad about, even if I did make contact with my father recently only to find out that he had cancer and didn't have long to live and can pop his clogs so to speak any day now. However he used his illness to get a gold tick before D day. I told him that I forgave him and he was so happy but never had any intention to keep the contact with me after. Yet again I was very angry with him and his games .... I choose to forgive him again and also forgave myself  for feeling like a muppet.  I remain strong and full of humour at this difficult time with just waiting until I get the phone call or letter to tell me that my dad has passed on but I do feel much better for choosing to forgive.

I also forgave my ex boyfriend (6 years ago now) for a big head mess. I had sooooooo much hate towards him I can't tell you but now he is my best friend and talk through out the day everyday and both have moved on with our lives for the better and really are grateful  for our friendship. Some people even thing that we still love each othe but it's just in a brother/sisterly way and he has had a woman in his live for a few years now and i've had a hot dates and all go on our hols together. Never would dream of that happening ever.

At the mo I need to forgive myself for saying something that was very cutting. I did say sorry but  this person is still dissapointed  and upset  with the acid tongue comment I made, which I can totally understand.  I will need some advice from you guys later on this one...

Sorry for the ramble

[ronit]

One can learn  to send healing energy at a distance with Reiki level 2 for example, or even EFT.
It is possible to send the energy  to a person  or to a particular situation from a distance.
It is also possible to send it into the past as well as onto the future .
Before dozing off at night i send Reiki to all the events of the day especially to people i might have diminished in some way.
Then in the morning i do my Placemat - a projection for the day to come.
I feel that between these two the need for forgiveness of others and of myself has greatly gone.

[AlwaysHappy]

One can learn  to send healing energy at a distance with Reiki level 2 for example, or even EFT.
It is possible to send the energy  to a person  or to a particular situation from a distance.

Oh yes, I forgot about surrogate EFT Tapping

Thanks!