Question: Using EFT to deal with negativity

[camsco]

I had a horrible encounter with someone today.  I am a very positive being and I was in an awesome mood....and wham....I got hijacked!
My question is : I used EFT to deal with the nagging residue of negativity from this person and for some reason...I could not detatch from it.  I was drained, disoriented, absent minded, depressed, and angry,  ALL DAY.  However, I treated every person that I encountered through out the rest of the day with total respect...meaning I did not take out my anger and frustration on others.   What did I do wrong, or is there something extra you need to do when it comes to strong negative emotions?  It is still bothering me as I write this.    HELP!!!!   

I don't like sounding like a baby..but this really got to me.  It was work related and I really do not think I deserved to be talked to or treated the way I was treated...I even cried.....on and off all day.  Silly huh?  I kept saying all day long..this too shall pass,  but it just would not go away.    Any suggestion would help immensley.

Blessings,
Desiree

I have recently learnt to the degree that I am attached
to a thing, is the degree of negative reaction that I
could experience.

To the degree of the reaction is the same degree of
which i could apply the same energy in discovering and
releasing the resistance and attachment.

If I get a big reaction, the first thing that I realize
is ah ha resistance and attachment, great lets find it
and release it.

So ah ha I have a reaction here, there is resistance
so where is the attachment and resistance hiding ?

Then I go to work with that knowledge using the
energy that has flared up to good purpose..

To the level of negative reaction experienced is
the level that I choose to be excited. Because if
it is a big reaction then there is an exciting release to
be enjoyed, with exciting future benefits to be gained.

Lastly thank the person or situation for throwing up
the opportunity for you to discover your resistances
and attachments.

At least thats the way I look at it now.
\
Cam

[dolphindream]

Thanks Cam for your reply.  I think looking at this whole situation, my attachment was to the job that I needed to do.  I take pride in my craft, and my pride was hurt.  The resistance was that I was being told that I could not do it.  So yes, I do need to thank that person, because even though I did not get that job done, I was still paid for it and they ( the store) do not get the benefits of what I was there to do.  Also, I need to not take my job so serious that when things don't go according to plan....I don't get pushed out of shape or take it personal.   Thank you.....again.
Blessings,
Desiree

[ronit]

Ok gang ... this time it happened to me ....
On Saturday evening i received a direct 'psychic hit' ,by a very hurtful comment made by my daughter's friend.
She actually gave me a warning when she said :" I hope you don't mind me saying...". but i  wasn't quick enough to say :" please don't "!!!
Next day i felt dizzy and weak....  First i tried to figure out which part of me called this  etc. then i did EFT  and REIKI....  looked it up in Louise Hay's book...this has been going on until this afternoon , Tuesday.. i finally went to my chiropractor who explained to me that sometimes , especially when we least expect it we can be hit in the solar plexus , the chackra is left wobbeling which caused the dizziness... he got me to visualize a  vortex of energy spinning back into my solar plexus .... and that did the trick !!!
What do you make of that ?
i

[dolphindream]

Ronit...
Your chiropractor is right about the solar plexus.  When ever someone violates my space....I feel it immediately in this area.  The dizziness could come from several things.  Have you eaten since this happened?  sometimes when our third chakra is out of balance and it will eefect our second and first....we lose our appetite.   I know that when my lower energy system is whacked...I immediately start at my crown chakra...and bring in the light.  I see it moving down and clearing each chakra with the white light and then I see AA Michael carrying buckets of "unwanted" energy from my lower body to the light for transmutation.  Sometimes this process lifts your etheric and physical body into perfect harmony.  Sometimes,depending on the impact of the "attack" you have encountered it may take a couple times to feel it is working or several days. 

I don't know whats worse..someone you know doing this or someone you don't  know?  None the less....it is not good either way.

Sunday night I had an unknown individual  calling on my cell phone and waking me up all night telling me he loves me and other things (YUCK!).  Monday all day my solar plexus was whacked out.
I actually went home early and laid in bed trying to release all of the negativity I was feeling.  I changed my greeting on my phone and I am using the generic one.  Called my cellular company and if he calls anymore I am filing a police report.   I actually meditated just like I explained above and it really helped.

Sending you love and light Ronit....and also remember....there is a vast amount of energy on our planet right now. Some people are having a hard time processing it.   This is no excuse, but alot of beings don't understand what they are saying our doing.  We need to shine our light on the situation as hard as it may be.    Sending you armies of angels.

[ronit]

Desiree , you are the BEST !!!
I am feeling fine now , but this was quite awful...to compound it all i checked the symptoms on the intenet... not a good idea!!!!

[dolphindream]

Ronit...so glad to hear you are feeling better.  Keep meditating and focusing on the beautiful energy you are creating.  Keep up the Reiki and the EFT.  and always remember, like the the great Zen Master said....."THIS TOO SHALL PASS".  It always does. 

Today is going to be a beautiful day for Ronit,  she sees the beauty in everything she encounters!   She attracts people who admire her and want to be around her.  She is a loving and deserving child of God....so it is said and so it shall be!

[ronit]

Thank you so MUCH .

[dolphindream]

You are SOOOOOO welcome!

[ronit]

Well... i had a lovely day , full of ' real moments '- this was a title of a book by Barbara de Angelis  i read several years ago .
She coined this term : " real moment " to describe the good feeling you get when you are  'at one' with everything .
This evening , watching the sun set over the ocean with a wonderful daughter... after a lovely day shopping....oh , i love my life !!!

[dolphindream]

Oh Ronit....that was a beautiful post!  It is the simple things in life that make us shine!  I love watching the sunset and rise.  It is one of the most beautiful gifts from our Creator.  Being at 'one' with anything is BLISS.  It is bringing our self fully in the moment and knowing that every moment is a divine gift. LIFE is good!  I hope you bought yourself something special  on your shopping trip!
CELEBRATE LIFE!  You deserve it!

[Darwin]

Interesting thread to be sure
It seems strange to me
That what most people do is complicate things
When we are confronted with
events, others people or circumstances.
The first thing us humans do is ask, Why me?
Why is this happening to me?
First and foremost, We Are All One!
ONE, so the first thing to ask is what is this
ONE trying to tell me about myself and if you are
confident you didn't attract this
maybe this ONE attracted you.
The universal laws even though very clear are
hard to work with.
And many people working with the laws are confused
when THINGS seem to happen or events come into there
life for seemingly no reason, rest assured there is a reason.
Tools as EFT and others are not meant that no other work
is needed.  To make yourself a victim is not creating.
Most of us want to share what we know and have
learned and with the first sign of someone needing help,
we say why did I attract this?   You cannot clean a dish with
hands.
Or like the airlines say, First put on your oxygen mask and
then help others put theirs on.  You can not help others
create until you can create.  Don't trip on the small stones
looking for large diamonds.
In Ho' oponpono they teach because we all are one, there
is something in all of us that contributes to the problems
others have and vise versa.
So you must constantly clean yourself and one of the simple ways
to start is by your own cleansing.
Simply repeat, out loud, silently doesn't matter, after repeating
several times I mean hundreds it kinda becomes a prayer without
ceasing.  Just repeat over and over "I Love You, I Am Sorry,
Please Forgive Me, Thank You"  say it with feeling, a loving grateful feeling.
Or when you see, hear or feel something negative, say these four phrases
directed to that person, feeling, circumstance or just put it out there.
Your life will get better, I guarantee, if you let it.

I love you, I am sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you

Darwin

[ronit]

I think we are all students of the laws here and we are all trying to figure things out .
what is so nice about this forum is the quick response and offers to help when someone is in need.
I have heard of Ho'ponopono in another forum , it is a good mantra , i don't get the philosophy of it though but, that might change ...10 years ago i would have found energy psychology  like Reiki and EFT very weird!!!

[dolphindream]

Ahhh.... the negativity post has popped back up.  LOL!   

here we go:

Two Saturdays ago I was robbed at GUN POINT......here is the crazy thing.  I handled the situation with great strength. My goal was to give him all the money in the register and get him the HELL OUT OF THE STORE.   MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.   

After this happened I kept asking my self... DID I ATTRACT THIS?    WAS I IN THE WRONG PLACE AT THE WRONG TIME?
I kept asking this over and over.  Come to find out that weekend there was a  major robbing spree going on in our city.  They even went back and hit the same place (Subway Sandwhiches) the very next day.

About three hours after the robbery my solar plexus was so screwed up.   I did a major cleansing that night and released a ton of toxic energy.   Sunday I was doing okay, but Monday after working with the 2 Detectives assigned to this robbery and watching the video...I was a mess again.  I relived it over and over.  The detectives said we did everything right.  There was a customer, myself, and the owner.  The three of us worked together ...the dynamics were incredible.  I got the gunman to the register had the drawer open and was pulling out stacks of bills as fast as I could.   NOBODY was hurt and another customer walked in right as the robber was putting the money and the gun in his pocket.  The robber fled.....I wanted to PASS Out...BUT  I started taking cleansing breathes and tired to center myself.   IT all seemed like a movie,  like I was watching it but not in it.....does that make sense?   

Anyway...I have been forgiving this robber.  I have been REALLY sending him love and light.  Five years ago I would have been on a anti-vigil expedition.    Sometimes we have to go through these lessons.  One thing I do know for sure, is I was given several insights that this was coming and I think I was prepared at the very moment that I needed to be.  When I watched the video i could not believe how calm I was and how I took control of the situation and it ended up with no one being harmed.  Miracles happen in the worst situations.  There were a few other robberies in the past month....some of the people were not so lucky.   


In love and light,
Desiree

[Almathea]

That is an incredible story, Desiree... I'm so glad you are okay but I have no doubt in my mind that in that kind of a situation, someone who knows, uses and has succeeded with the laws of the Universe can get away without a scrath because there was more to it than a robbery. I think it was a lesson of some kind. Anyway, whenever I go through something negative I think ''what do I have to learn from this?'' or ''did this occur because there was something much worse coming my way and the Universe wanted me unharmed?''

[dolphindream]

Yes Almathea.....this is exactly how we have to look at it.  I even think that if I had not been there, the owner might have panicked.
He put the store up for sale the next day and it has sold.  It was a part time (extra income) job for me and I have been there for 2 years. I work every weekend (ABOUT 20 HOURS BETWEEN THE 2 DAYS) I do not know if I will be asked to stay.  It is kinda crazy...I lost my full time job in November, and this job was kinda my fun money job...could be ending as well.  I have been working 7 days a week...do you thing the Universe is telling me something??  I do know that I will be taken care of.  I just know this.  Thank you God and angels!  Thank you for your response to this post.......ahhhh the endless lessons!