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Topic: Is it possible to hurt someone else by using LOA to get what you want? (Read 3120 times)
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InsideChange
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Okay, I didn't used to think this was true, but now I've had some recent experiences that make me question things. Can you actually hurt someone else by using LOA to help yourself? Sort of like a backlash? It doesn't seem as if this would be true, but I can't help but think it is now. I didn't intentionally make this happen - something I would NEVER do - but I can't help but think that I made this bad thing happen anyway. What are your thoughts?
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dolphindream
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Insidechange~ I truly do not believe that we create bad things (especially for others) when we are in a space of the higher good of all involved. However....I do make a habit of saying.. at the end of my request"With harm to no one"..when I am asking for something. This is just a validation and confirmation that when I do ask for something that it does not infringe on any one else. I call it a safeguard fiat...but in my heart I do not believe that the Universe delivers things for ones needs/desires at the expense of the other. Also, if something has happened that does not seem to be good, we have to remember that we do not know what the other person's karmic debts are. The Laws of Cause and Affect (Law of Karma) is a powerful law. We reap what we sow. I am sure that you had nothing to do with whatever happened. Rest assured that when your intentions are aligned with the divine, you are only creating good for everyone involved. To release any guilt you are feeling, send it to the light for transmutation ..or in other words 'Let go and let God'. This will help you detach from any negative feelings that you are having towards yourself. Remember that you are loved and you are safe, as well as everyone around you. If it helps...you can write on a post it...."With harm to no one"...and stick it in a place that you will see it often. This will be a gentle reminder to yourself that.... your intentions are pure! Hope this helped.  |
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Many Many Blessings,
Desiree
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ronit
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Hello Desiree,
Nice to see you back. How are you doing ?
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starlet
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We cannot create in someone else's reality. That is why we cannot attract certain people to us and things like that. There is no way you could hurt someone else. Since I do not believe in "coindky-dinks" there was a reason why that "bad thing" happened at the same time you were manifesting something else. Look closer, there might be a lesson for you, or you are being forewarned of something. The Universe might be trying to tell you something.
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dolphindream
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Greetings Ronit~ I Am doing wonderful.....I Am blessed....how are you doing? SOOOOOOOO......how did your week go with your friend? I have been waiting patierntly to hear...... |
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Many Many Blessings,
Desiree
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InsideChange
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Thank you all for your responses! I do appreciate your help.
Guess I need to get working on EFTing about the feelings associated as Ronit suggested in another post.
I guess I don't really believe, deep down, that I caused this thing to happen, but I can see no other reason for it. Of course, it may be the best thing for everyone involved, who am I to judge.
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ronit
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Hello Desiree,
My friends visit went just as i expected.... JUST as i expected..... when will i learn?
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dolphindream
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Thank you all for your responses! I do appreciate your help.
Guess I need to get working on EFTing about the feelings associated as Ronit suggested in another post.
I guess I don't really believe, deep down, that I caused this thing to happen, but I can see no other reason for it. Of course, it may be the best thing for everyone involved, who am I to judge.
Insidechange..........If you don't really believe, deep down, that you caused this to happen.....then go with your truth. Also, there is always hidden blessings. Look for them, they are there. Remember that there is a huge difference between making an observation opposed to passing judgement.  |
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Many Many Blessings,
Desiree
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dolphindream
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Ronit~ So 'the when will I learn' must mean that things went according to the intention you set? Well I look at it this way....you did learn...and that is very cool! Lessons are exactly that...a learning experience! And the coolest thing about it is.....we all learn!  I always look at it like this...there is knowledge..and then there is wisdom. Wisdom comes exclusively through our lessons! May your day be full of miracles! |
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Many Many Blessings,
Desiree
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ronit
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Desiree,
My friends visit was very draining , i was not able to get a lift off .. it took all my energy to be polite and not 'tell her how it is...'.
The day she left i felt exhausted ... slept all afternoon . (well,also because she had to catch an early flight for which we got up at 5am...).
So yes , i am disappointed with myself for not being able to project what i wanted , instead i dreaded what could happen and it did.
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Nirakia
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I recently read a Dwayne Dyer book, The Power of Intention, in which he talked about changing how he experienced visits from his wife's family by intending to stay peaceful and interested, no matter how much he disagreed with their viewpoints...and gradually it changed. People stopped making offensive remarks, and they actually had fun.
But oi! To keep that peaceful mindset, huh?
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dolphindream
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I think the hardest thing to do is change our mindset when past experiences have been ultimately downers or negative events.
But.....as Dr. Dyer has said in many of his teachings...When we change the way we look at things....the things we look at change.
So ultimately it is shifting thought form into a new vibration. I have done this....and it does work...but you have to be repetitive with your positive thinking.....and not let your ego switch tracks. I just saw the movie this weekend...Peaceful Warrior...and there is a profound scene when Dan, the main charachter(also the author, based on a true story) let's go of ego, detatches completely. It left quite an impression on me. This was a very powerful film...and I highly recommend it if you have not seen it or read the book.
You can google peaceful warrior and watch the clip/trailer...Nick Nolte rocks in this movie!
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Many Many Blessings,
Desiree
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ronit
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Thanks girls !
I guess this is part of my learning curve..
It is so annoying , i have so many tools , i teach them to all and sundry... but was i using them ? NO !
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dolphindream
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Hello Ronit~ Well....don't get down on your self.....congragulate yourself, because you stepped up to the plate and realized that this lesson was very valuable to your soul growth.......so CELEBRATE! When we learn....we evolve..when we evolve...we learn.....(a double edged sword, so to speak) so welcome to EVOLUTION of the soul! May your day be blessed! |
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Many Many Blessings,
Desiree
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ronit
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Hello Desiree,
Thanks . You are so right , there is a lesson here somewhere.
Once i get off the ' anger with myself ' pot - i will be able to see it !
..... nearly there...
Have a great day too !
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