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In today's Creative Manifesting eZine I have a special guest article by Eldon Taylor (best-selling author of Choices and Illusions) along with a unique opportunity to receive incredible gifts (one-day-only).
And, for your Quick Manifesting Morsel - I hope to share with you some insight about what to do when you want to manifest an ex-love back into your life. (Hint... you may not like the insight... but read Sandi's story (below) to get the deeper meaning.)
I look forward to hearing of your success!
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Guest Article by Eldon Taylor
The Rehearsal that Makes a Lifetime
Difference (excerpt from Choices and Illusions by Eldon
Taylor)
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Within every human being exists a propensity for greatness.
The gifts may vary, and the greatness may live out in a vast
array of alternatives-say from carpentry to rocket
science-but the gift that gives one true self-respect, lifts
the spirit from "same old, same old," resides within. It is
our ability to do our very best with our talents in every
thing we do. This potential resides within each one of
us-but if so, then why is it so often denied?
Every individual essentially has a self-representation that
is rehearsed and eventually actualized. The process begins
by fantasizing at a very early age. We fantasize a script,
perhaps one of those from some Hollywood production. We
begin rehearsing it, and we either abandon it to take up a
new one or practice it until we role-play that script as who
we are. Practicing the script sooner or later automates the
behavior. Our imprinting environment plays a significant
role in the alternative scripts available to us. If the
parents are uncaring and abusive, so are the children, and
so forth. If warmth and friendliness lead to embarrassment,
then cold and aloof compensate. If honesty gets us into
trouble, then deception becomes a defense strategy, and so
forth.
It is much more complicated than expressed here, but simply,
it is also just this way. In fact, every one of us divides
ourselves among four essential views of ourselves. These
four faces include the following:
Our actual self. Our ideal self. Our ought-to-be self. Our
desired self.
These categories were originally developed by P. A. D.
Singer to show how the different selves conflict with each
other. I will use it differently.
Most of us are aware of a so-called actual self. This is the
self that has failed in ways we often will not share with
others. This is the private self. This self holds the
thoughts we wish we did not have, the acts we wish we had
not done, our beliefs about our worth, our attractiveness,
and so forth. It is the self of our secrets and our
ambitions. It is the self that most try to change in some
way or another at some time in their life-perhaps even
perpetually.
The actual self pales by comparison to our ideal self. The
ideal self is often a construct built by our culture. This
self would live a perfect life-without error and therefore
without room for growth.
Then there is our "ought-to-be self." This is the self full
of all our learned "shoulds" and "oughts." This self differs
from our ideal self in the sense that many of the oughts are
not ours-they are the oughts of our culture, our society-but
deep down inside they are not ours. Sometimes these oughts
are the result of rules that make little or no sense to us;
sometimes the oughts are of codependent negotiations such as
those implied when Mom said things like, "If you loved me,
you would not behave that way," or "If you loved me, you
would do what I said," and so forth. Still, even when one
recognizes the source and the nature of the ought
relationship from which the oughts themselves arise, they
often persist.
Finally, there is the desired self. Somewhere among all of
our other selves is a self that we believe we could be. This
is the self we long for, especially when we are young and
planning our future. It is also the source of much
discontent in our later life if the desires have not been
fulfilled-and they rarely, if ever, are.
The ought-to-be self, desired self, and ideal self share
certain commonalities, but they also differ remarkably.
There is psychic tension among them and in their totality,
substantial tension between them and our so-called actual
self.
Now, there's one more thing I wish to add before continuing.
The actual self is seldom the true actual self. The actual
self is the self of self-perception and therefore is
complete with every believed limitation that accompanies
one's private self-perception together with every defense
adjustment our mechanisms have created to protect our self
image or ego.
Okay, all of this is accomplished while we are still very
young. In time we gain the wisdom and insight to become
familiar with this maturation process and a myriad of other
operations that function in our culture, our homes, etc. to
produce socially acceptable membership and behavior. Using
one of Shakespeare's metaphors, life is a stage where we
play our various parts, perhaps it's time for a new
rehearsal. Indeed, change, improvement, true self-
actualization and so forth, all require that we create a new
character. Using our power of imagination and consciously
choosing the role playing model we will rehearse, will
greatly assist and facilitate any change.
Therefore, it literally behooves all of us to watch those
conversation exchanges that take place in our head as well
as every other aspect of our "rehearsing" behavior. To
experience our best we must practice/rehearse our best at
all levels of our being. It works-but it can also be much
easier said than done. Still, life's cornucopia of joy
awaits those willing to make the effort.
Eldon Taylor
Eldon Taylor has made a lifelong study of the human mind and
has earned doctoral degrees in clinical psychology and
pastoral psychology. He is the CEO of Progressive Awareness
Research, an organization dedicated to researching
techniques for accessing the immense powers of the mind. He
is a Fellow in the American Psychotherapy Association and is
the author of over 300 books, audio and video programs. To
contact Eldon in response to the story, you can reach him
via his website: www.innertalk.com. To get a copy of his new
book Choices and Illusions, go to:
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A Quick Manifesting Morsel with Anisa Aven
Many have asked, "how do I re-attract a relationship that I lost?" or "How do I attract my ex back?"
When I say, 'As long as you are attached to your ex-love returning, you can't get them back. You must be willing to completely and totally let them go, if you are to re-attract them or someone better. You must say, I release them in love and I allow this or something better in my life now."
Most - I'd say 95% - look at me like I'm crazy, turn on their heels and run as fast as they can. Most - say, "but I love them so much, I can't imagine life without them. And, I'll never let them go."
Therein lies the problem. When we are so attached to something that the mere thought of NOT having it sends us into fear, the fear itself rejects the very thing we want. It's through our attachment and unwillingness to detach, allow, and trust in the Divine Order that we literally suffocate all possibility of the love we really, really, want.
"Anisa, I just wanted to give you an update: I have not heard from
Rick in any manner, but I feel better... I have been doing
EFT (I wouldn't say everyday, but certainly often) and
honestly feel better. I have clarity over what happened
between us. The best news is that I have met someone who is
absolutely wonderful. He is everything Rick was and so much
more. I am amazed at it all, and so thankful! I remember
reading your articles on attracting a specific mate and how
you don't advise to do this because it limits you, and even
though I secretly disagreed with you, I took your advice and
am so thankful I did. Even if Rick comes back, compared to
Stefan, there is no contest! THANK YOU!"- Sandi
To read more about how to use the laws of attraction when it comes to re-creating a relationship or re-attracting someone from your past, or even attracting someone specific. Be sure to check out my article's archive at http://www.creatavision.com/articles/law-of-attraction-articles.htm
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Choose to Use EFT & LOA .... Learn how to let go of that ex-love with the Attract a Mate (or Re-Create the One You Have) with the Power EFT & LOA.
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