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Dear Friend,In today's edition of Creative Manifesting, I include an article on 'Am I crazy for thinking I can use the Law of Attraction to re-create my relationship? When do I just let what I'm hanging onto go?" The Masters of the Secret program that was supposed to open today has been postponed until next week, Tuesday, April 17th. You'll still have an opportunity to support me in raising money for MS (Last week I mentioned that I'll either rebate my affiliate commission back to you (if you purchase on launch day) or with your permission donate it to the MS150 event which raises money for those living with Multiple Sclerosis.) You can still get the talking eBook today, if you haven't already: And, I figured out how to get you access to the Rhonda Byrne (producer of the Secret) teleseminar tonight without going through the Masters of the Secret program too! I hope she'll share with her audience tonight about how she wouldn't write a word until she had meditated herself into a state of love and appreciation first. (Jack Canfield, at a seminar I attended in March, shared his admiration for her and pieces of the story that really touched my soul.) Thank you so much for helping me to make a difference. I look forward to hearing of your success! Create a great day! For immediate customer care or order related assistance, please contact Carolyn at: 832-478-1469 or csupport@creatavision.com P. S. If today's article about re-creating your relationship resonates for you, then know that there are materials on my site that can absolutely help you in manifesting the relationship of your dreams. I've done it and you can too! It may be time to use the tools in my Use the Power of EFT & LOA to Attract Your Ideal Mate (or Re-Create the One You Have) audio and digital eCourse: P.S.S. Thank you to everyone that has shared your Manifesting Success story with me!
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Quick Manifesting Morsels with Anisa Aven:Q: I love your site and your devotion to helping others manifest their dreams! I always get so excited when I get your newsletter because I know it will have some helpful hint I need that day!! I have a question about the law of attraction and manifesting. I find that I can easily manifest things I do not have a strong attachment to, but when it comes to big things, like relationships, I am not so lucky. For years I have been hanging onto a relationship with a guy I believe to be my soul mate, only it has been a rollercoaster of emotions and feelings, some good and some bad. It is heartbreaking to me because I feel like I have all the tools to create the beautiful, romantic soul mate relationship I desire with this person but I can't seem to get it right. I know I cannot control his feelings but am I wrong to think that the law of attraction can help this situation? I know I should just focus on the relationship I desire instead of the face it comes with, but I feel so strongly attached to this person and want to experience the love I desire with him. Any insight you have would be so much appreciated. Thanks for all you do! - Erin A: Thank you for your kind words, Erin. When we focus on what we want, what we desire, we send forth an energetic signal that is creative. However, that signal is not vibrationally aligned with what we say we want but instead it is aligned with 'the longing' for what we want. Desire is a descending emotion filled with longing, an intense wish for something that we feel separate from. It's the experience of separation that prevents us from intentionally creating. As long as we feel separate from the essence of our desire, we vibrate in opposition to it. "You can't have what you want." - God, in A Conversation with God by Neale Donald Walsch You have to change your 'wanting' to 'accepting'. The 'trick' to re-creating a relationship is to be willing to never have that relationship be that which you say you want. Instead you must be willing to focus on the experience of love and fulfillment that is the essence of your true desire. This translates to sheer willingness to accept whatever is, as exactly what's meant to be. It means being willing to let this relationship go; and to be willing to accept it exactly as it is, as perfect in and of itself, even if it never changes. From this willingness, your thoughts soften and a greater sense of tranquility will prevail. Within this state of mind lies the energetic framework required to inspire and attract the real relationship you want, the essence of your real desire. The framework I'm referring to is an intention to unconditionally love and accept your partner exactly as they are, filled with the wonder of life as one of God's perfect Divine souls. For as you send forth real love and light, you free their inner being to return the love.
Now, you'll notice that I used the word 'trick' above because that's exactly what you're doing. You are tricking your thoughts into a place of greater vibrational illumination. Of course, there are times when it's simply more comfortable to move away from what is than to re-create it. Re-creating a relationship, a job, or a health issue, for example, when we are steeped in the diagnosis of 'the way that it is' requires a great deal of courage, attention, intention, time, and faith. I won't say that I haven't taken the easier road at times because I have. When my children's doctor didn't believe in naturopathic options, I didn't try to 're-create' that relationship; I didn't use the law of attraction to inspire him to come around. In this situation the path of least resistance was simply finding a doctor that was more aligned with my family's beliefs. Long standing relationships will be more challenging to re-create because of their 'story'; because the relationship has so much history and evidence to prove it is the way it is. My current relationship is the best I've ever had. I feel madly in love, cherished, cared for, and passionate about our future. When he's away, I can't wait for him to get home. My brother borrowed him for two weekends in a row to help build a storage shed. (Unfortunately, people are always borrowing my honey because he's pretty crafty with a hammer.) By the 2nd weekend, I was a little pest calling them both and whining, "When are you going to be done? What about me?!?!" My brother said, "I didn't know you were that needy!?!" I just giggled because the truth is I'm the furthest thing from needy but I did miss my honey! This is a very fresh and very good feeling. It wasn't always this way, however. My honey and I have a history of power struggles. At one point I threw up my hands and said, "I'm done! I just don't want this anymore." This was the precise moment when I was able to re-create the relationship. To tell you the truth, I thought at the time I'd have to let him go. I thought it would be easier to start over than to re-create this one. And, I was willing. However, I focused on willingness, acceptance, love, and hope instead. Then, as if by magic, the relationship turned into the most special love of my life. Another point I'd like to briefly discuss is one's attachment to the 'idea' about how a relationship should look. Recently a friend emailed that her partner said, "I'm just not good at relationships and marriage just doesn't suit me." She wants marriage and he doesn't. When resistance to the relationship comes in the form of resistance to the 'structure' of the relationship, you will want to consider whether it's the 'form' or the 'love' that is the most important. It's okay to want marriage and if your partner doesn't want that, you may have to let them go. Or, you may find that it's easier and more aligned with what you want to let go of the 'form' and love the relationship and your mate exactly as they are. Remember, millions of couples are happily (and permanently) coupled without the 'form' of marriage. If you want to re-create a relationship, inspire it to be all that you desire, you must start with that willingness that I mentioned above. Then send forth such a great deal of unconditional love and acceptance that the light from your heart transforms the situation. At some point there will be a fork in the road; an opportunity to stay because it's obvious that you can use the power of love to support the relationship you want or an opportunity to let it go. In spite of your love for your mate, it will become obvious that it would be easier to accept them as they are and let them go than to change them (and your thoughts about them). Your intentional unconditional love and acceptance will either inspire the relationship to new heights of adoration or you will become acutely aware of the relationship's incapacity to give anymore than it's already giving. At this point, you won't be able to judge them for being the way they are. Instead, you will honor the Divine within them and trust that the Universal spirit is guiding you to a better relationship once you let this one go. Either way, you will experience a peaceful resolve first. This will be your cue that you are indeed aligned with the wonderful love you desire. Copyright, 2007: Anisa Aven, www.CreataVision.com This article is available for free reprint: See article reprint rights, please visit here. If you experience any delay in getting 'approved' for the Creative Manifesting discussion forum, please contact Carolyn at csupport@creatavision.com. EFT & LOA: If you know EFT, here are a few set-ups that can support you in obtaining that place of willingness:
My EFT demo, http://www.creatavision.com/manifesting-eft/emotional-freedom-techniques-demo.htm
http://www.creatavision.com/products/EFT-relationship.htm
Calling on my co-creative friends to help me raise money for a good cause! There's two ways you can help me make a difference! As you may already know, I'm riding my bike from Houston to Austin, Texas on April 21st and April 22nd in the MS150. It's 185 miles! (Yikes! - but my brother Chance and I have been training for months, so I'm hoping we're ready.) The event raises money for people living with MS. If you have found that my site, articles, and teleseminars have been supportive and would like to contribute directly to my campaign, please visit: http://ms150.org/ms150/donate/donate.cfm?id=191553 And, the other way you can contribute (and get a little something in return): The Masters of the Secret Talking eBook The new launch date is Tuesday, April 17th! http://www.mastersofthesecret.com/?join=981 On launch day, the creators (Barry and Heather) will be offering the complete program at a significant discount. ($67 instead of $97). And, I will contribute $40.00 to MS (or if you The Masters of the Secret program includes over 20-hours Again, if you don't feel inspired to purchase the program - However, if you were going to invest in the Masters of the And, if you would rather I return the money to you, then I Thanks for helping me raise money for a good cause! If you would prefer to make a direct donation to my MS campaign, you may also visit my donation page at: You are appreciated!
Thank you for allowing me the honor of supporting you on your conscious creation journey! Create a great day! |
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