Dear Friend,

What do you do when your children drive you batty?

How do you remain connected, centered, and in the flow of
all-is-good when you are being disrespected, ignored, and
emotionally tortured by your loved one's behaviors?

To change a relationship's dynamics, we must start by
changing our internal vision and expectation of the
relationship.

We absolutely can change our relationships with the power of
our mind. By changing our mind, we change our experience.

In the Quick Manifesting Morsel today, I share how to use
the secret law of attraction to get your children to do what
you want!

The law of attraction is at your service! Open the
door and put it to work creating all that you desire.

Create a great day. and share that with others

Anisa Aven
www.CreataVision.com,
www.ManifestingProsperity.com
www.TurnKeyCoachingSolutions.com
1.281.893.0475
1.888.244.6630 toll-free in the USA/Canada

P.S. Remember, the same conscious creation principles apply for all relationships.

For example, my eCourse Attract a
Mate (or Re-create the One You Have) with the Power of EFT
and LOA, is primarily designed for lovers. However, I'm
getting lovely emails about how students are using the tools
within to improve the relationships with their children.
http://www.creatavision.com/products/EFT-relationship.htm

Be sure to share your parenting success stories with me as
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Quick Manifesting Morsels with Anisa Aven:

How do I apply 'the secret' law of attraction with my children?

Q. I recently discovered "The Secret" like millions of
others on Oprah and I have watched the tape 4 times already.
It seems to work for me in every aspect except with
controlling my emotions. I have a 17 year old who I would
like to put on some boxing gloves on and beat up. He is
always disobeying rules and then he acts like I never told
him the rules when I go out of my way to make sure that he
knows. My frustration is at an all-time high with him. How
do I control my emotions and not want to slap him? I am at
my wits end. Please help!!!!

All relationships are held in the vibrational grid that
we've set for them. What we expect from our children, we
receive. How we expect them to respond, react, and behave
becomes the literal pathways and switchbacks that inspire
and steer their actions.

Additionally, how we imagine our reactions to them becomes
the magnetic fuel that inspires our 'uncontrollable'
reactions in challenging moments.

We train our loved ones and others how to treat us and then
as we grow and realize that we will no longer tolerate that
treatment, we want to blame our problems on their behavior.
We then proceed to seek happiness by demanding or pressuring
them to change.

For example, I've noticed that over the last year, I've
become much more inconsistent with the enforcement of
logical consequences. Thus, I've trained my 10 year old to
look me right in the face, smile, and continue jumping as if
I didn't just say, "No more than 3 at a time on the
trampoline!"

Due to whatever excuse I can come up with, over the last
year I've been too lackadaisical about enforcing the rules.
Therefore, he now knows he doesn't have to follow them. I
tend to react and throw my fit, "Why do I have to get angry
before you start listening to me?!?!"

However, in my heart I know the answer. My children are
behaving according to how I've trained them to behave and
how I expect them to be. I've come to expect Parker (10)
not to listen and therefore he doesn't. I've come to expect
Ashlyn (5) to whine too much and therefore she does.

All relational experiences are inspired by how we hold the
relationship internally.

If you've ever seen Cesar Millan, the Dog Whisperer,
(http://dogpsychologycenter.com/dogwhisperer/ ) then you've
seen the law of attraction at work in relationships. As pet
owners see and think about their pet, the pet responds by
confirming those expectations.

On Cesar's blog, he writes:

"A dog with three legs, one eye, or hearing-impaired does
not see him-or herself as disabled-they just instinctively
learn to adjust, as you will see with Holli the Motorcycle
Dog. And it is important for those of us who have disabled
dogs not to feel sorry for them. Remember, they do not think
of themselves as victims unless that is the energy we are
projecting onto them." - Cesar Millan, the Dog Whisperer,
http://dogpsychologycenter.com/blog/Season3ep02.php

I'm not suggesting that we treat our children as our pets.
However, I am suggesting that all of our relationships
including the parent-child relationship respond directly to
the energy we project on them as Cesar suggests with dogs.

To change a relationship's dynamics, we must start by
changing our internal vision and expectation of the
relationship. This is the energy we project and this is
where all relationship growth begins.

If you want to change the relationship (and thus their
behavior), then start using the secret law of attraction
intentionally to inspire the relationship you really want by
seeing it in your mind and heart first.

Then, put your attention on your intention to respond from
your heart in a calm, loving and equable manner, no matter
what.

At first, this may seem like the last thing you want to do.
To be loving and kind and composed when what you really want
is to strangle them!

However, please know that law of attraction students who
take full responsibility for their relationship end up
creating better relationships.

We must choose not to struggle with what our children do or
what our partners does, we only need to focus on our own
thoughts, emotions, beliefs and behaviors to change the
situation. .

I want to share a client's story that I believe reflects
just how powerful the power of the mind truly is. And, how
one mother, without a word to them directly, focused on
herself and inspired her children to adapt and grow.

My client, Vivian (name changed) has been doing a great deal
of 'self-love' work. Using EFT to eliminate her self-doubts
and self-sabotaging patterns, she has been also imagining
her relationships with her children growing, evolving, and
returning to a state of loving acceptance.

I have had the honor of watching her steadfast commitment to
her growth. In spite of her desire to help her children,
her first order of business was to choose to love herself,
choose to make peace with reality and choose to find her own
sense of happiness. It was extremely challenging initially
to justify being self-absorbed when her children were in
such pain.

She expressed to me that she felt selfish and irresponsible
as she worked on her own happiness while her children were
engaged in reckless and horrifying behaviors (drugs,
promiscuity, quitting school, etc.) "How can I be happy
when my children are so unhappy?"

As Vivian began to accept her own Divine Right to happiness
and redirect her attention to self-acceptance and the
unconditional acceptance of her children, an amazing thing
happened. Her teenage daughter and son began to show signs
of their own self-acceptance. They began to communicate
with greater love and respect for one another and towards
their family. Her son has expressed interest in going back
to school and her daughter has altered many of her
frightening behaviors.

This is precisely how the law of attraction works. When we
take emotional action, such as realigning our pure, positive
thoughts with what we really want, we are then inspired to
love and accept what is. By loving and accepting what is,
we send forth the vibration of love and acceptance to those
around us.

When our children feel our unconditional love and
acceptance, we can then communicate with peaceful resolve
our boundaries, our desire for collaboration and cooperation
and then fully expect this to be the outcome.

The law of attraction dictates that our relationship
experiences are created by our expectations.

Of course, there are also tools that we will be inspired to
learn as we focus on self-care and the acceptance of those
around us. Therefore, when a book falls in your lap about
emotional intelligence, parenting, or relationships, pick it
up, read it and start to apply it!

Hold the vision of a return to love and peace for you and
your children. With the intention to be loving, kind,
compassionate and firm, you will find that you simply feel
better. As you feel better, the energy you project on to
them literally inspires their actions to be aligned with
that energy. Thus, you get what you want and they get what
they want!

With enough time and attention you can and will absolutely
re-create your relationship and thus your experience.

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Create a great day!
Anisa Aven
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www.ManifestingProsperity.com
www.TurnKeyCoachingSolutions.com
281.893.0475
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