Dear Conscious Creator Friend,

Greetings!

The theme of email questions this week seems to to be all about how to get
our lovers to do what we want them to do using the law of
attraction.

Well, my suggestion is we stop trying to change them and
instead change the way we view our relationship.

In today's Quick Manifesting Morsel I address How to re-
create the relationship you have using the Law of Attraction
(even when there are so many differences.)

And, I include a quick living vision example as well.

(A thank you goes to Sherri for asking about how to 'create'
your honey being a nonsmoker and getting healthy!?! The
living vision will illustrate what to do when you have to
focus on the essence of what you want as opposed to the
description of what you want! Know what the essence of what
you want really is?!?)

I look forward to hearing of your success!

Create a great day... and share that with others

Anisa Aven
www.CreataVision.com,
www.ManifestingProsperity.com
www.TurnKeyCoachingSolutions.com
1.281.893.0475
1.888.244.6630 toll-free in the USA/Canada

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Quick Manifesting Morsels with Anisa Aven:

How to Use the Law of Attraction to ReCreate Your Relationship (Even When When There are So Many Differences.)

Q: How can I find harmony and peace with my husband? I am a
"Polly Anna", eternally optimistic and believe in the law of
attraction. He is the eternal pessimist and a true "Sarah
Burnhart"... What can I do?- C.

With a relationship that is core-attitude incompatible such
as a Pollyanna and an Oscar-the-Grouch, the one that
understands the power of the mind, is the one that can
intentionally create peace and harmony in the relationship.

In other words, the one that is willing to intentionally
apply the law of attraction to improve the relationship is
the one that will ultimately be the cause of that
experience.

Of course, there's a couple of catches!

When we choose to change or grow our relationship, we must
do this by being willing to first, accept the relationship
as it is; without exception and without an attachment to the
change we desire. I'll explain why this is true, shortly.

Second, it's important to remember that there's always a
price and a pay-off to every change. When we choose to
intentionally change a relationship, we can ultimately
attract our ideal relationship (even from within the one we
have) but not without change.

Therefore, be open, willing, and prepared for changes. It
may not come in the package or form that we originally
planned. Remember, there are two creators involved here and
therefore compromise, flexibility and growth will be
required on both sides. This is true whether both parties
are aware of the intentions of the other or not.

Now, getting back to the first catch, you must apply the law
of detachment by accepting that your mate may never change
and be willing to be at peace with this exactly as it
stands, forever.

Making peace with your reality is the art of detachment.
Practicing detachment does not mean you are giving up on
your desire for a more harmonious relationship.

Quite the contrary, you are giving up on your desire to have
your mate be someone they are not. You keep the desire for
harmony and that becomes your magnetic beacon.

By focusing on the essence of harmony and calling that into
your experience, you literally inspire those around you to
act, be, and do things that are in alignment with that
harmony. And, you inspire yourself to not be present when
this isn't the case.

You are, through the intentional act of surrendering to what
is, exchanging attachment for detachment, resentment for
forgiveness and rejection for love.

Therefore, if you want to inspire changes within your
relationship, choose to surrender to loving it just the way
it is.

Then, begin to put your focus, attention, and intention on
the love, harmony, optimism, fun, adventure, connection,
passion, etc. that you want to experience at the core of
your being.

By imagining that you experience these things within the
relationship every day, you create a wave of magnetic energy
that ripples through your home. Your loved ones will
literally feel inspired to ride that wave and in a boomerang
fashion return the love you are sending out, as if they no
longer want to present their 'negative' face but instead
feel compelled to be more harmonious around you.

Recently, a client had a major breakthrough with her
relationship with her in-laws. It required a great deal of
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), creative visualization
and a willingness to love them exactly as they are.

She used EFT to eliminate her picture of how they are,
including her belief that they were disrespectful and
indifferent to her needs and that they were and always would
be selfish, self-righteous and overbearing. She then used
a great deal of creative visualization to implant into the
Infinite Mind what she wanted instead: kind, considerate,
respectful, honoring in-laws that she enjoyed and
appreciated.

Here's her miracle email:

"Just wanted to pass along some awesome news!! My
husband's parents returned home from vacation this week and
they came to dinner last night at our house. Not only was
it really wonderful and comfortable and easy and fun...
Guess who washed their hands before holding the baby?!?!
Talk about progress! Woo-hoo!" THANK YOU, THANK YOU,
THANK YOU!!" - H.

This email is a miracle because only a few short weeks ago,
she would have preferred to never see them again, let alone
endure an entire dinner!

She used the power of the law of attraction to literally
empower the relationship to have the energy of love,
respect, and harmony all on its' own.

Every relationship experience is caused by our thoughts,
emotions and our expectations.

Therefore, to change our relationship experience we must
change our thoughts and emotions and expectations of the
relationship.

We want to choose whether to use emotional scribbling or
emotional sparkle to inspire our ideal relationship from
within the one we have.

If we are reacting to what is, then we are using emotional
scribbling to draw our relationship masterpiece.

If we are intentional, conscious, and focused on love and
acceptance, peace and joy, then we are using emotional
sparkle to draw our relationship masterpiece.

In summary, here are the steps:

1) Be willing to love and accept your mate exactly as they
are even if they never change.

2) Decide what you want in the relationship and focus on the
essence of that desire (peace, love, harmony, beauty, joy,
passion, etc.)

3) Begin to give what you want in the relationship. If you
want more love, start giving more love. If you want more
peace, start being more at peace.

4) Use emotional freedom technique (EFT) or some other
forgiveness tool to eliminate the doubts, fears, and
resentments from your past in order to free yourself from
any self-sabotaging thoughts or expectations.

5) Imagine that you already have the very thing that you
want right now from your mate. Practice this vision over
and over until it becomes a part of your expectation.

When your love of the reality feels truly fulfilling and
your expectation for peace, love, and harmony becomes a
knowingness (a firm level of absolute certainty) then your
physical world will catch up to your emotional world.

This is when you will open your eyes to the change that has
taken place and the materialization of your ideal
relationship will be what you see.

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Quick Living Vision Example:

How do I use the Law of Attraction to get my husband to stop smoking and get healthy?!?

First... Sherri shares what can happen when you
intentionally apply the law of attraction to improve your
relationship and then she asks a question about how to use
the law of attraction to get her honey to quit smoking and
start eating healthier.

More proof that you can truly use the secret law of
attraction to manifest the relationship you desire.

"Thank you so much for all of your insight. This law of
attraction stuff really works. The first thing was my
marriage - it is better than ever! Synchronicities happen
all the time, I know that it is the Law of Attraction.

Now, my question: What words can I affirm or use in my
gratitude journal for my husband to quit smoking and lose
weight? I feel that I do my part, cook the proper foods, and
set an example. I don't harp or nag him and I have never
smoked. Recently, he has started talking about changing, but
that is as far as it has gone. I could really use some more
of your insight. Thank you." - Sherri

A: First, be sure to follow the suggestions for detaching
and loving what is in the article "How to Use the Law of
Attraction to Re-create Your Relationship".

Since 'non-smoker' still has the vibration of 'smoking', the
tricky part about manifesting a non-smoker is that we have
to focus on the essence of what a nonsmoker actually means
to us.

The following example uses the Living Vision technique (aka
Rain Dancing) with alternative affirmations to indicate what
I believe 'nonsmoker' means to me as well as what I perceive
as the essence of health conscious. You'll want to use words
that trigger your true feelings of what the pure essence
really means to you.

"I am so incredibly grateful to be in this loving
relationship that is so filled with pure health and
wholeness. We are on the same path of mutual health and
wellbeing and we enjoy taking care of ourselves physically,
mentally and spiritually.

I enjoy my honey's fresh breath in the morning and when we
embrace his sweetness and purely clean smell envelopes me.
I melt in his arms and feel safe, happy, and at peace.

We both admire and greatly appreciate each other's
commitment to our health. He is strong, centered and
capable of I take a deep breath when we hug, I lap up the
sweetness that I smell and just melt in his arms.

We are both free from any and all addictions and the
experience of physical freedom is delightful for both of us.

Together, we use positive self-talk to encourage our
commitment to health both internally and externally. I hear
my honey saying all the time, how grateful he is to feel so
free and young and healthy and respectful of his body. He
is proud of his accomplishments and proud to be treating his
body with such incredible grace and love and honoring
support.

He feeds his body healthy, nutritious meals and I am so
inspired by his commitment. It has truly always been this
way for him. He has simply always had a desire for health
and for the foods that regenerate and restore life.

And, even when we choose to engage in less than natural
foods, our bodies are power houses of energy and restorative
faculties. Our bodies know what to do to engage in ultimate
health and wholeness for all the days of our lives, no
matter what.

We both breathe deeply and naturally and have incredibly
strong cardiovascular health and vitality. We are healthy,
strong, and vibrantly youthful all the days of our lives."

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I look forward to hearing of your success and to co-creating with you!

Create a great day!
Anisa Aven
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