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We were born with the unlimited potential to intentionally create (use the law of attraction) to manifest all of our heart's desires. Together, as Conscious Leaders guided by the Divine, we have the Mind Power necessary to co-create a sustainable, harmonious, peaceful, and prosperous world. And, we can do this while also attracting and creating a passionate, loving, rich, healthy life with all of our personal dreams fulfilled.
March 5, 2010
How to do Creative Visualization – Living Visions (Powerful Manifesting Tool) Free Audio (MP3)
Category: Audios Free Downloads, law of attraction — Anisa @ 12:05 pm
Quick Manifesting Morsel
One year ago, this week…
I did a special TeleCreation session titled, “How to Create
Your Own Living Visions for Super-Fast Manifesting.”
I’ve included the replay for you as my gift to you. Living
Visions are exhilarating and they work! The faster you
BECOME your vision, the faster you manifest it.
You have the natural ability to consciously tap into a
higher power. When you generate powerfully attractive
statements that literally summoned what you wanted into
existence, you’ll start BECOMING that which you speak about.
When this happens, you’ll find life to be magical.
I read a recent article by Wayne Dyer that reminded me of
this Truth. I have to paraphrase but he wrote something
like, “They got it all wrong about the Law of Attraction.
You don’t manifest what you want. You manifest what you
are.” Shazam!!! That’s so true. Living Visions are
powerful ways to transform your life and start living
aligned with the essence of who you really are – LOVE, JOY,
ABUNDANCE, WISDOM, WHOLENESS, BEAUTY, SUCCESS!
In this replay, I worked with a few people to illustrate how
to create powerful Living Visions (the most powerful
conscious creation tool I use).
You were born a powerful creator, meant to live a life of
awe and inspired magic. Join me and I’ll help you tap into
that Truth. And, I don’t ask for your email or money,
etc… it’s just a gift. But, don’t think that means it’s
not worth anything. 
!
Here’s the replay.
Be sure to submit your comments, ideas, or questions below. I welcome your comments.
March 2, 2010
7 Keys to Manifesting: Key 5 – Resilience & Expectation
Category: Creative Manifesting, LOA doesn't work for me, Videos, conscious creation, law of attraction — Anisa @ 3:03 pm
From the 7 Keys to Manifesting Your Dreams, Key 5: Resilience & Expectation
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Video 2 of 2:
Resilience
When something goes wrong do you tend to bounce and say ‘bring it on’ or do you tend to fall apart and say, “I give up”?
Many of you have fantastic, majestic goals of vast proportions. And, many of you just want your simple needs, like plenty of money to pay your bills or take a vacation with the kids fulfilled.
Whatever goal you have, it’s important to PLAN for resilience. Previously, I’ve suggested that you take out your goal and reverse engineer each milestone along the way. Then, with the milestone in hand, envision and add vibrational life to it – energizing it with your thoughts, beliefs, and intentions.
Now, I do not want to suggest that you ‘plan’ for problems but I do want to encourage you to PLAN for how you intend to BOUNCE back when setbacks, obstacles, or challenges present themselves. And, they will – not because you are destined for difficulty but because CHANGE requires transformation; change requires your life to be altered, modified, and adjusted in some way in order for you to receive that which you desire.
You see with every change you seek, there must be a change in your current reality to make room for the new reality.
For example, how do you create a better job without leaving your current one? At some point, even if you manifest a ‘fun-filled going away party,’ you still have to leave the old job behind.
Likewise, if you want to re-create your ideal relationship, you will have to leave the current relationship behind, emotionally and spiritually, if not actually physically before you can birth a new or renewed relationship.
Imagine achieving your ideal health and wellness without changing your physical fitness or eating habits. Can it really be done? Sure, we’re unlimited – but how many people do you know that have actually achieved total wellness while sitting on their couch just thinking good thoughts?
Thus, all change and creation requires a willingness to ‘pay the price’ for receiving the goal. Do not mistake what I’m saying here. I’m not saying it HAS to be difficult or HAS to cost too much for you to achieve your dreams. However, I AM saying that you will be met with conditions that may appear as a challenge before you will have the opportunity to make room for the goal to be fulfilled.
Your work is to be resilient and choose to BOUNCE with the change. Choose to know each ‘challenge’ is nothing more than one change that is occurring on the way to the fulfillment of your dream.
If you know ahead of time, that change must occur and you choose to be resilient before you EVER get there, then you are valiantly ahead of the game. While others will be saying, “Why me? Why is this happening like this?” You’ll be saying, “Bring it on! I’m ready! I’m strong and nothing will stop me from achieving my dream.”
PLAN for RESILIENCE! Make up your mind ahead of time how you intend to BOUNCE!
Expectation
Remember, what we put our attention upon expands. We attract into our lives whatever we think and believe the most.
Now, I group Expectation with Resilience as the 5th key because we want to Expect things to go our way but we must choose to be resilient when the outcome isn’t exactly what we intentionally expected.
You see, we often forget that we also get what we expect. As intentional creators, we launch dreams of colorful master-pieces filled with magnificent stories of lavish abundance, extraordinary love affairs, accomplishment and accolades. This is important and we have fun visualizing our successes.
Then, we go about our day ‘expecting’ what we’ve always expected…
… oh, this is going to be a hard conversation. She’s never easy to talk to.
…oh, there’s no way I can learn all this material by the deadline.
…oh, I’m not good at this type of project.
…oh, I’m surrounded by people who just don’t get it.
Do you see where I’m headed here? We have all these insidious ‘ideas’ about ourselves and those around us.
…oh, I hope I get a raise but they keep saying we should expect cut-backs.
…oh, my mate has never remembered our anniversary.
…oh, she’s not going to do what she says. I just can’t depend upon her word.
Insidious expectations – they quietly permeate so many of our waking moments that we disregard them as nothing more than normal mental banter.
However, thinker beware, these thoughts are not just benign chitchat!
One flea may not be a problem, but twenty become 200, become 2000, become 200,000 and very, very quickly become a malignant menace.
Insidious expectations, left unaddressed will also multiply. And, like a vibrational parasite, these negative expectations suck the life out of our positive intentions.
It’s important to know ahead of time how you will handle the outcome of negative expectations. (How will I be resilient?)
We also want to become aware of our fears, doubts, and limiting ideas that inspire the negative expectation.
I uncover my fears and doubts by asking simple questions:
- What are my negative expectations?
- What am I afraid will happen?
- What will disappoint me?
- What’s the worst thing that could happen here?
- What could go wrong?
- Then, I ask – am I afraid or concerned that these things will happen?
Once you’ve discovered the fear, worry, or doubt – you can shift it by simply focusing upon the opposite of the fear.
For example:
…oh, I hope I get a raise but they keep saying we should expect cut-backs.
–>becomes – I choose to be hopeful and trust that the raise is already mine.
…oh, my mate has never remembered our anniversary.
–>becomes –“Why is it that my mate remembers our anniversary?” Or, if that’s too far-fetched try, “I choose to relax, ask for my needs to be met and I enjoy being pleasantly surprised.”
…oh, she’s not going to do what she says. I just can’t depend upon her word.
–>becomes “I’m willing to trust in her ability to see this commitment through.”
Once you identify the negative idea, you want to shift your attention to something more aligned. For example, “I am hopeful.” Or “I am willing to forego all preconceived ideas.” Or “I choose to have a beginner’s mind.”
Then, if you use EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) any recurring limiting expectations could be eliminated and released forever! In fact, I highly encourage you to consider how you go through your day.
Do quiet but sinister expectations sabotage your joy? Are these seemingly normal thoughts eating away at your dreams without you realizing it’s even happening?
Remember, when we go ahead and deal with the potential danger of one ‘flea’, it’s far easier than waging war against the consequence of fleas fornicating in multiplicity. (That does sound really nasty!) The same goes double for our negative expectations!
Get rid of them now and get aligned with your positive dreams! Then, choose to be resilient and bounce with each change. Follow this bounce with an intentionally directed expectation of Hope, Faith, and eager expectation!
February 23, 2010
How do I get unstuck?
Category: law of attraction — Anisa @ 1:19 pm
How do I get unstuck? I’ve done EFT, Affirmations, etc. and I’m still stuck!?!
Dear Anisa,
I am wondering if you have any advice on getting “unstuck”? For example (and there are many examples right now), I was laid off last year and still cannot determine what the right direction is for me to head in. I was not happy with my job/career and feel the universe responded by removing that from my life, but I have not been able to figure out what I want to do now. I don’t feel it is procrastination, because if I knew what to do I would jump at it, and I am eager to make advances in my life. I have used EFT, meditation, affirmations, you name it and I still feel like I am in this holding pattern and my energy is just stuck. Any advice or insights??? Many thanks and blessings to you! – Erin
Quick Audio Coaching, listen here:
Quick recap of the Audio: We believe that we’re stuck
because we don’t know what to do. We are afraid that we’ll
make the wrong decision or a mistake, if we choose to jump
into something.
I’ve discovered, however, that being ’stuck’ is a result of
being unwilling to make decisions and unwilling to make
mistakes.
Therefore, my first suggestion is to set aside the
frustration you feel about ‘not knowing what to do’ and
instead CHOOSE to educate yourself fully on your options.
Go into a full-force ‘Discovery’ mode!
When a corporation decides to add a new product line, the
first thing they do is analyze their options. If a rubber
tire company is considering adding windshield wipers, they
first do a competitive analysis and business plan to really
get a clear view of what will be required to make this new
line successful.
For example, they investigate, who’s selling wipers now?
What’s their price, quality, market share and methods? What
has created their success or failure? Do we possess the
capacity to be competitive in this market given what we
know? What unexpected challenges might we face? What would
support our success? What might cause our failure? How
will we know we’re successful? How will we know when to
quit?
Now, why not do this same kind of ‘Business Analysis’ for
your options? Additionally, consider a personality test
that will enlighten you with a better view of what ignites
your passion and what skill-sets you already possess. (I
know Chris and Janet Attwood’s The Passion Test book and
quiz has been very helpful to others, for example.)
Secondly, after really moving forward with the Discovery
Analysis, be willing to EFT the fear of making the wrong
decision or making a mistake. Indecision is usually caused
by one of two things – a lack of knowledge/information or a
fear of making the wrong choice. The only WRONG decision is
making the decision to make NO decision at all. You can
always change your decision later, but refusing to make a
decision will result in the least amount of success
possible, every time.
Therefore, be willing to do your homework and analysis. Get
rid of the fear of making a bad decision then, JUMP in with
both feet knowing you can always adjust your sails later.
Taking a leap of faith is called a LEAP of FAITH because it
really is a ‘leap into the unknown’. Be willing to jump
into that unknown and trust the process. We get unstuck by intentionally pushing through the inertia of standing still.
February 18, 2010
How do I manifest a relationship with someone I know I want to be with?
Category: law of attraction — Anisa @ 2:56 pm
Q: I know who I want to be with. How can I use EFT or LOA to manifest them?
I have a question about your Relationship Program, Attract
Your Ideal Mate (or ReCreate the One You Have) with the
Power of EFT & LOA.
I know who I want to be with. I would really appreciate if
you could explain how to get back with someone who is the
man of my dreams? We were in a relationship but we broke
up. It was really tragic for both of us and now it’s been a
year and a half but my love for him has increased immensely.
He’s in my class and it’s really difficult for both of us to
face each other but I truly deeeeeplyyyy love him. There
is not a single second when I don’t miss him. I really miss
him and I want to do so many things for him and want to make
him feel special. All my dreams have simply shattered…
Please help me in getting him back in my life. I would be
thankful to you if you could help me. – “P.”
Q&A:
Listen, Audio Coaching with Anisa: Click below to listen…
I must tell you that I’m not an advocate of ‘attracting
someone back into your life’ as the singular focus of your
conscious creation process.
I’m not saying this doesn’t happen or that you can’t be
happy if you attract them back into your life. But, most of
the time, when we focus on the ‘object’ of our desire as
opposed to the ‘essence’ of what we want, we are almost
always disappointed with the outcome.
It’s like saying, “I want to be a train conductor. And,
managing and operating a train is the ONLY thing that will
make me happy.”
You may manifest an opportunity to conduct a train but it
may mean moving across the country (away from your family)
or taking a cut in pay, or it may be the ‘kiddie train’ at
the zoo. In other words, if you limit what you believe will
make you happy, you may get what you ask for and still be
unhappy. (No – there’s nothing wrong with the kiddie train,
except it may not include the ‘excitement’ etc. that was in
fact what you thought you were getting!)
If, instead, you focus on all the things that you believe
‘conducting a train’ will give to you that really want, then
you may find that being a conductor of another form of
transportation meets all of your needs including prosperity,
location, family, work/life balance, etc.
This is known as focusing on the ESSENCE of your desire, not
the OBJECT!
In relationships, the more you focus on THAT SPECIFIC PERSON
(even from within a marriage) as being the one responsible
for your love and happiness, the more attached,
disconnected, and resistant you are to manifesting it!
Remember, the more attached we are to an outcome the less
confidence we have that it will manifest. The less
confidence we have, the longer it will take to materialize.
The longer it takes to materialize the less confident we
become and the cycle goes on ad infinitum.
Thus, your first order of business is to ELIMINATE all fears
about releasing your attachment to this person. (Yes, this
goes double for a marriage.) This includes eliminating the
idea that your source of happiness must be supplied by this
person. You can do this with EFT (Emotional Freedom
Technique) in a matter of 3 to 20 minutes a day. It’s not
difficult – but does take commitment and some persistence.
Whatever method you use to eliminate limiting beliefs and
negative emotions – pull it out and get rid of ALL those
fearful, doubtful, shameful, sad, angry, guilty emotions
around your current or past relationship. Choose to make
complete peace with WHAT IS and with never having your needs
for happiness met from this specific person. Then… once you
really detach from this PERSON being the source of your
happiness, you MAY be able to attract (or re-create) the
relationship.
After you’ve completed the detaching process, your next step
will be to focus on the ESSENCE of what you really want; not
the object but the essence – the joy, love, peace, fun,
adventure, passion, etc. that is what you REALLY want to
experience.
Once you feel confident that the LOVE you really want is
happening with or without this ‘person’ being the source of
that love, then one of three things will happen.
Your relationship will improve and become what you wanted it
to be all along. Or, your relationship will change and
you’ll invite a different form or mate into your life to
fulfill your goal. Or, you will change so much that what
you previously thought was ‘required’ for your happiness is
no longer an issue, thus the relationship or lack of
relationship is no longer an issue either.
In regards to the Attract a Mate (with EFT & LOA) program,
it’s for anyone who wants to attract a new relationship or
improve, re-create, refresh their current
relationship/marriage. It also addresses how to attract
back the love and affection you once shared (or would have
liked to) with an ex. I’ll speak first to those of you
wanting to attract an ‘ex’ back and then we’ll talk briefly
about how to re-create a relationship from within a marriage
or coupled situation.
If you want to attract a romantic relationship with an EX
(past love, partner, friend) or with a specific person, or
if you are seeking to attract someone specific or to attract
a past romance BACK into your life, then allow me to
forewarn you…
You cannot win (attract) them back AND experience the love
you really want without first employing the Law of
Detachment and the Law of Allowing.
My EFT & LOA for Attracting your Ideal Relationship program
can ONLY support the reunion, if in fact there’s a Divine
Order that includes a calling from BOTH of your Inner-beings
to reunite. Until you are willing to let go and allow your
greater good to flow, you will find that your relationship
with this person will be far from ideal if there’s a
relationship at all.
And, I have GREAT NEWS…
ALL that you shared in that past love can be re-created
(with or without) that specific person using the principles
of intentionality and EFT! In fact, my program walks you
through that process… and at the end of the program -
freedom and self-love will return to your heart.
Other than this detail above (you must detach before you can
create), all that you require to re-create the love you
really want is already within you – this program helps you
access it in a timely and efficient manner! To read more
about how you can apply this powerful technology to your
relationship dreams, please visit here to learn more about
the Attract a Mate (or Re-Create the One You Have) with the
Power of EFT (emotional freedom technique) & LOA (law of
attraction) online program.
Now, if you want to re-create a better relationship with
your current partner.
I designed this course with both singles and coupled
individuals in mind. In order for you to re-create a
relationship you will be required to let go of the current
relationship form. This is done from two vantage points, the
first is to enact the law of detachment (and thus detach
from the outcome – no matter what the results) and the
second is to create an overwhelming faith that what you want
can and will happen for you. For many coupled individuals,
it can be frightening to give up (detach) and at the same
time accelerate your faith that what you want can occur.
However, unless you are willing to put your focus on your
unlimited nature (as if you were responsible for your own
happiness – just like when you were single) then you’ll be
disappointed in your co-creation results within your
relationship.
And, I have GREAT NEWS for you too!
ALL that you loved about this relationship can be re-created
and the essence of what you want for your future can
absolutely manifest for you when you use the principles of
intentionality and EFT; this course walks you through that
process… and at the end of the program – joy, passion, love,
acceptance, and confidence will return to your heart.
All that you require to re-create the love you really want
is already within you – this program simply helps you access
it in a timely and efficient manner! To read more about how
you can apply this powerful technology to your relationship
dreams, please visit here the Attract a Mate (or Re-Create
the One You Have) with the Power of EFT (emotional freedom
technique) & LOA (law of attraction) program.
I hope this answers your question adequately. I look
forward to hearing of your success!
For more information, visit:
http://www.creatavision.com/products/EFT-relationship.htm
Also note: Between now and the 20th, there’s THREE bonuses
- two group coaching sessions where we will address your
specific questions & Alan Tutt’s “Blissful Relationships” audio.
Alan Tutt of PowerKeys Publishing has offered to add a bonus
to my Valentine’s Day Special (Attract A Mate with the Power
of EFT & LOA), which ends this Saturday, the 20th.
If you haven’t heard of Alan Tutt, he teaches some rather
unique concepts about how NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
may be used to activate the Law of Attraction. If you want
more information on Alan’s material, you can register to get
a series of special reports he offers at
http://www.PowerKeysPub.com/gifts.
Alan will send you a brand new, short 14-minute audio
program which uses NLP principles to make it easy to use the
Law of Attraction to attract and maintain blissful
relationships.
All you have to do is forward a copy of your receipt (to
alan@powerkeyspub.com) showing you’ve purchased my
Valentine’s Day Special, and he will send you a private
download link to get a copy of his new “Blissful
Relationships” audio program.
Whoo hoo – is what I say! Oh – and thank you Alan!
http://www.creatavision.com/products/EFT-relationship.htm
Next Week’s Quick Manifesting Morsel:
I have a Vibrational Video Coaching for you in which I’ll
share the 5th Key to Manifesting Your Dreams – Resilience
and Expectation. It’s important to PLAN for how you intend
to be resilient, not as a means of preparing for failure but
as a means for dealing with the inevitable changes that will
occur as you manifest your dreams (and change always
occurs). In regards to expectation, we not only get what
we put our attention upon but what we expect. However, most
of us don’t really realize what we expect. We tend to
dismiss our ‘expectations’ as mere observations when more
often than not they are insidious ideas that prevent our
dreams from manifesting with greater ease.
February 2, 2010
Insidious Limiting Beliefs – How to find them and what to do with them
Category: attract relationship, conscious creation, emotional freedom technique, law of attraction, limiting beliefs, manifest a mate — Anisa @ 3:22 pm
QUICK MANIFESTING MORSELS
With Anisa Aven
Q: “I have a question on breaking down a goal (mine is
getting my soul-mate). How do you know what you should do? I
don’t want to go out in a sense of “panic” like “am I doing
the right thing?” And, then go home perhaps disappointed. Do
you get a “hint” beforehand or what? – C. San Diego
A: It’s important to understand that if you felt confident
and at ease, then you would not have the question ‘am I
doing the right thing?’
Thus, the important issue is what’s causing that question to
come to the surface in the first place?
Do you know what the biggest relationship repellant is?
I bet you can guess, can’t you?
—> Desperation and Disappointment
Let’s face it. We’ve felt the creepiness that exudes from
people that are desperate. There’s a disturbing atmosphere
surrounding them; an unpleasant stench practically transmits
from their very being. We sense it and are mutually
repulsed by it when they are so worried and desperate for
something that they practically pant with anxiousness and
erratic intensity.
What’s the picture you get when you think about the
following?
- Try going to a bank for a mortgage loan when you feel
desperate about avoiding homelessness for you and your
family.
- Try taking the BAR exam, again, when you feel desperate
that you must pass or else face complete humiliation and
failure.
- Try a new diet and exercise routine when you feel fraught
with the memories of past failures and your high school
reunion coming up.
- Try going to a singles event and at first, confident that
you are putting your best self forward only to feel the
ticking of your biological clock reverberating within
reminding you with every passing moment that you are one
minute closer to never having a family.
Now, for most reading this article, you’ll think, “That’s
not me. I don’t reek with desperation. I might feel a
little worried or anxious at times but who doesn’t?!? I’m
not desperate!?”
My challenge to you is to remember that ANYTHING that pushes
your buttons on ANY level, anything that causes you to
adamantly say ‘That’s not me!,’ is the EXACT negative
emotion and belief insidiously sabotaging your dream. The
real question is not ‘am I doing the right thing’ nor ‘how
will I know?’ but what causes this fear? What are the
thoughts, fears, and beliefs underneath this question that
make me fearful that I might have to settle for less or
worse, not achieve my dream at all?
Is it something like the following?
“I’m afraid I must be doing the wrong thing. And, if I’m
doing it wrong then I will never get it right, never find my
soul-mate, or it’ll take too long. If it takes too long
then I will be lonely, sad, and pathetic for most of my life
and this is too much to bear. Maybe, I was just born to be
alone. Maybe, I’m not worthy loving or not deserving of true
love.”
You see, I know the thoughts well, because I’ve had plenty
of limiting and fearful thoughts in my past about everything
from ‘will I ever find my true love’ to ‘how will I ever be
successful’ to … well, you get the idea the list goes on and
on.
First, you want to FACE the fearful, negative thoughts. Dig
them up and look them square in the eye! What is the worst
thing this says about me, if this ‘fear’ were to come true?
Usually, in addition to the ‘fear of being alone’, ‘fear of
having to settle’, ‘fear of never finding someone to love as
much as you loved your previous lover,’ etc. Underneath
these surface fears, will be more destructive thoughts and
beliefs.
I’d like to share with you two types of beliefs to look out
for.
First, look for your core beliefs. Core beliefs are usually
overarching thoughts that are about ‘you as a person’. They
will be the limiting beliefs that come up repeatedly
throughout your life such as:
- I’m not good enough.
- I’m not smart enough.
- I’m not worthy.
- I do not deserve.
- I’m too stupid, selfish, ugly, fat, etc.
- They were right, I’ll never amount to anything.
- I can’t do it. There’s something wrong with me.
- I was born deficient.
- I am unlovable (and so many nasty untruths!)
These are the decisions we made long ago when a parent,
teacher, or authority figure said (or didn’t say), did (or
didn’t do) what we needed in that moment to feel lovable,
worthy, valuable, and deserving.
Guess what? It’s time to get over it and stop allowing
those nasty moments in our past predict our future
happiness. Now, let’s talk briefly about the second type of
limiting belief. This one is far more sinister, disguising
itself as our protector. This second type of limiting
belief is known as the portentous secondary gain.
Secondary gains are elusive; they are tricky, sly, and
difficult to trap unless you really know where to look.
These are the beliefs that we’ve developed as a means of
protecting ourselves from change, disappointment, pain,
hurt, judgment, responsibility, etc.
Examples of secondary gains:
- I want to lose weight but then I’ll just have to buy new
clothes. And, since I don’t {fill-in-the-blanks- have the
money – like shopping – want to waste my old wardrobe, etc.]
thus, it’s better to stay overweight than to risk not having
any clothes.
- I want a relationship but then I may have to quit my job
because [fill-in-the-blanks- women don’t like my job, men
don’t want their women traveling, making more money than
they do, etc.} thus, it’s better to stay single than have to
lose my job.
- I want a relationship but what if I {fill-in-the-blanks -
get my heart broken again, am cheated on, end up ruining it
and hating myself, etc.}
- I want to be wealthy but then I may have to {fill-in-the-
blanks: pay my family to stay out of my business, learn
about finance, stocks, bonds, and all that ‘rich-folk’
stuff, deal with people only being my friend because they
want my money, suffer the judgment of my loved ones because
I’m wealthy and they aren’t, etc., etc.} Thus, it’s better
to stay put, than to risk it.
- I want a new, better job but {fill-in-the-blanks -then
I’ll have to learn something new, I’m too old/tired to
change, will have to work hard again and I need a break,
etc.}
- I want to let go of my anger but {fill-in-the-blanks – I’m
afraid that there’s far more difficult emotions like sorrow,
shame, or guilt waiting to overtake me if I let go of my
anger, etc.}
- I want to forgive but {fill-in-the-blanks – if I forgive
then it will happen again, it will let them off too easy,
I’ll be a fool, I might let them back into my life again,
etc.}
Look carefully at ANYTHING that you’ve wanted for a long
time that continues to elude you. Look carefully at the
benefits to staying put. I usually ask myself a few
questions about the benefits of staying put, to uncover my
secondary gains.
For example, if you want a relationship you might ask
yourself:
- What are the benefits to not having my soul-mate, right
now?
- How does being alone, keep my safe from harm?
- What would be the worst thing that could happen if I had a
relationship? Is this something I’m worried about?
- What would I have to give up in order to attend to my
soul-mate?
- What’s the price I’d have to pay in order to make room for
a relationship? Am I afraid that price might not be worth
it?
Dig deep and you’ll find those secondary gains. You are
sure to find that there are secondary gains preventing your
success all the while pretending to protect you from the
pain of failure, the heartache of loss, or the torture of
disappointment.
Now, once you have your inventory of limiting beliefs – EFT
the heck out of them (use Emotional Freedom Technique to
eliminate each limiting belief)! That’s the fastest and
most consistent way I’ve used to get rid of the ridiculous
rationalizations we have for sabotaging ourselves.
Desperation and disappointment are terribly repellant of
your goal; any goal, for that matter. Therefore, dig a
little deeper than the initial ideas around what makes you
feel anxious or worried. Discover the REAL reasons you feel
desperate or disappointed, and apply Emotional Freedom
Technique until you feel complete relief.
Once you’ve done this work, the original question, “How
will I know that I’m doing it right?” will simply be
obsolete. In fact, that question will seem entirely
irrelevant as you instead start asking questions like, “How
do I want to show up today that will give me the greatest
joy?” And, “I wonder what adventure spirit has in store for
me today? I can’t wait!”
This will work – but you do have to do the ‘work’!
Thank you for the honor of supporting you!
Love and light, Anisa Aven
January 26, 2010
global-unity-and-transformation-our-responsibility-for-change
Category: law of attraction — Anisa @ 11:26 am
There’s a very important conversation that I’d like to have with you, actually need to have. Possibly, the most important conversation I’ve ever had. Friends, clients, and even strangers are suddenly speaking to me about it, even before I say a word – IT’S what is on their mind too.
A spiritual transformation, a sort of unified awakening is afoot. Do you sense it? This feeling has been in the pit of my stomach traversing through my core like a herd of buffalo seeking water but running in circles, pulled in too many directions to go anywhere.
Many of us are caught in an evolutionary crossroads; on the surface it seems as though we must choose between our normal lives with our desires for greater success and fulfillment and this seemingly contradictory inner stirring to DO something; do something important to make a difference, to correct the wrongs of the world; to ‘save’ our future and our planet, so to speak.
Burning questions flame our uncertainty:
- Is it right to be pursuing wealth when there’s so much trouble in the world?
- Is it right to want nice things, luxuries, when so many are drowning in poverty, hunger, and illness?
- How can I make a difference, make any kind of impact when the problems are so huge, so insurmountable?
- How can we help foreigners when we have so many that are homeless, hungry, unemployed, and physically or mentally disabled right here?
Ennui quietly slithers in and we welcome it because it feels better than despair or anxiety. Then, the next morning or the next ring of our cell phone, we snap back and return to our daily responsibilities, seeking refuge from angst in the structure of our normal pursuits.
It’s easy to slip into indolence considering the challenges that our planet and people are going through – climate change, biodiversity loss, repression, suppression, fanaticism, poverty, injustice, greed, and then to watch the insufferable horrors that the Haiti earthquake and decades of disaster and unrest have caused that tiny island, etc., etc., etc.
I’ve contributed what I feel is a significant amount but no matter how much I give it’s not ‘enough’ and I search for a way to reconcile this feeling of futility. It feels as though I shouldn’t go on frivolously attending to my ‘shopping list’ and my ‘must do this today list’ when so much needs to be done to make a difference, right now. And, at the same time, I’m clear that my primary responsibility is to provide for my family and children.
The conversation that stokes this debate is rising to the surface of many, perhaps you too feel inspired and energized about global transformation one moment and hopeless the next.
Sometimes, it feels like I must scream from the top of every mountain and every tall building – “Wake up! We need to do this together! Everybody, please help! Wake up! ”
These chaotic feelings are followed by dismissal – if I can’t do anything about it, I better just put my head down and barrel through my life. Maybe it’s better to act oblivious, like so many of those around me.
For a moment, I actually weigh my convictions and consider what an acquaintance said, “Why are you sending money? It’s not your place to help them. Help your own.”
I react indignantly to the ignorance and my spiritual foundation resurfaces. I am steadfast in my conviction, ‘they are my own’. Neither Geographical proximity nor unfamiliarity has a bearing on the fact that they are my brothers and sisters.
These reminders allow me to SNAP OUT OF IT and remember the Universal Truths that I’ve spent my entire adult life seeking to understand and to know:
We are powerful beyond measure. We are Divine Children of an all-providing Mother/Father/God. All that God IS, is Within waiting for our commands. We are inseparably intertwined with God and our fellow beings. WE are ONE. With loving acceptance, the source of all that we desire, including world peace, justice, humanism, the eradication of poverty and a return to wholeness for our planet is absolutely and unequivocally possible through the power of this Inner Source. Our ONLY responsibility is to remember this Truth, seek to understand that this Kingdom of Heaven, that we desire, is within and naturally follow the Divine Inspiration that comes forth from this place of positive awareness. Divine Right Action and thus Intentional Evolution will be the path we automatically follow when we align with this Truth.
Ahh…. Finally, a better feeling place!
Now, forgive me for not assuming that better feeling place right out of the gate!! And, let me explain why.
I have found that when my spiritual friends speak of their inner turmoil and doubts about this incredible time on our planet and I immediately attempt to redirect the conversation to ‘aligned Truth’, I neglect one crucial step that prevents an accord: rapport!
“Rapport is one of the most important features or characteristics of unconscious human interaction. It is commonality of perspective: being “in sync” with, or being “on the same wavelength” as the person with whom you are talking.” – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rapport
You see, the path of transformation requires a leap of faith but most of us do not make that leap in a single bound!!! There’s still a bridge to cross from ‘where we are’ to ‘where we need to be’. Thus, without FIRST understanding that everyone wants and needs to feel heard and understood before they can consider exalted Truth, we cannot influence our friends and loved ones onto the path of Global Unity and Conscious Change.
To cross this bridge, we must first seek to express empathy, compassion, and understanding for where we are and where our brothers/sisters are today; and, that our mutual or distinct ‘locations’ are perfect and divinely ordered, for now.
What is this transformational path? What does Global Unity and Conscious Change actually mean?
(I look forward to engaging this conversation more fully in upcoming posts. And, I am clear that I do not have all the answers and will need your help, your insights, your prayers and your oppositional views to help us build this bridge. Please help me by sharing your insights on my blog link below.)
This is a fantastically inspiring conversation, worthy of delving more deeply and exploring more fully. We have chosen to live on this planet at a time of great importance and opportunity. Never before, to our knowledge, have so many light-workers been conscious and ready all at the same time for a global transformation!
While there is much to do to intentionally evolve, I’d like to first start with what this transformation does NOT include:
For some, it may mean joining the Peace Corps but for most it does not.
For some, it may mean forsaking all worldly possessions and moving permanently to an Ashram, but for most it does not.
For some, it may mean pitching a tent at the White House gates waving a sign, “Hunger Strike for World Peace” but for most it does not.
For most of us, the awakened and those that are awakening, it means living more CONGRUENTLY and CONSCIOUSLY.
For those seeking love, it means living more loving in all aspects of your life.
For those seeking prosperity, it means living more generously in all aspects of your life.
For those seeking health, it means making choices that support the health of our planet as well.
For those seeking peace, it means living more peacefully.
For those seeking success, it means making choices that uplift others into greater success by finding win-win-win scenarios.
Abraham, with Jerry and Esther Hicks, has said (I paraphrase a bit) “You cannot get poor enough to help others find abundance. You cannot get sick enough to help others heal. You cannot get lonely enough to help others find love.”
Our first and foremost responsibility is to begin today to make choices that are aligned with Personal Healing and thus Global Healing.
When you feel misaligned and doubt or ennui tries to creep into your JOY, first seek to empathize with the very rational and understandable thoughts and feelings you are currently experiencing and know you are not alone.
Then, refuse to succumb to the ‘illusion’ of hopelessness. Rebuke the idea that the problems are too huge to do anything about while seeking to build rapport without losing your Truth with those that are capable of helping us to make a difference.
We can do this together AND when we pray and envision the WORLD HEALING we desire, we in fact already are!
Bless this time of global awakening and rejoice in the fact that the REASON we were born is upon us. We can make this the greatest moment in history. Shall we hold that vision together, from this point forward?
Thank you for joining in this prayer with me.
With much love and light
Anisa Aven
January 20, 2010
Goal Setting: How to chunk it down and reverse engineer it
Category: Videos, law of attraction — Anisa @ 3:57 pm
- Reverse engineering (how to identify the steps and why it’s important)
- More about those 10,000 seeds and being willing to do what must be done
- Breaking it down into ‘one bite at a time’ and focusing on each step and milestone instead of ONLY the end result
- Yes, focus on the end result but take inspired action on the milestones along the way
January 14, 2010
I Do What Must be Done with Zest and Enthusiasm!
Category: Creative Manifesting, LOA doesn't work for me, Videos, conscious creation, emotional freedom technique, law of attraction — Anisa @ 4:16 pm
Quick Manifesting Morsel with Anisa Aven
I Do What Must be Done with Zest and Enthusiasm!!!! (Is this your battle cry? Then read on to find out why it should be.)
It takes 10,000 acorns to produce just three Oak trees.
Now, ask yourself, is that Oak tree exhausted, frustrated,
and weakened because it had to spawn 10,000 seeds before
duplicating itself into another masterpiece?
This is what nature expects regarding creation and
procreation. Think about it – some frogs lay as many as
30,000 eggs to ensure its species. And, to ensure our own
species a healthy man’s sperm count is upwards of 20 million
per milliliter. This means that every successful
spermatozoon fought off somewhere between 90 million and 400
million other eager applicants to become the triumphant one!
Now, what would happen if that Oak Tree just decided,
“10,000 acorns?!? Forget it! That’s just too much effort?”
Our world would obviously be void of Oak Trees, frogs and
OHHHH…babies.
If the Oak tree did give up, it’s possible that it might
briefly enjoy the life of indolent ease. However,
eventually it would realize that it was missing something
critical; it would realize that its heart was void of
purpose. Apathy would ensue and finally death, as death
stands at the doorway of apathy. After all, if it wasn’t
meant to plant seeds, propagate, and prosper, the swelling question
becomes, “why do I bother to exist at all?”
Fortunately for those who have ever climbed a grand Oak or
taken a nap under one’s majestic, protective shade, the Oak
tree doesn’t look at those 9,997 acorns as failures, or too
much effort!
The credo of ‘I do what must be done – because that’s justoccurs naturally in the plant and animal kingdom.
what I do’
I ask, in the spirit of exploring the essential elements of
intentional creation, what if we, the brain-enamored,
bipedal mammals could choose this attitude?
What if instead of saying, “But, I don’t want to put forth 10,000 acorns
before I get a tree!!!” We said, “I am willing to put forth
whatever effort is required, even if it’s 10,000 or more!”
An Oak tree doesn’t say, “This is just too much effort;
everything I do requires too much work and 10,000 acorns is
just too long to wait. Nothing I ever do comes easy or works
out for me.”
No, an acorn becomes an Oak tree because that’s what it
seeks to do. An Oak tree spawns 10,000 acorns if that’s what
it takes to propagate because that’s what it does. It
doesn’t fight it. It doesn’t struggle against it. It just
does what it does. What if YOU could ‘just’ do what you must
do with zest and enthusiasm instead of begrudgingly?
If, as a conscious creator, we could look at our desires and
what we want out of life; look at our goals, and just do
what must be done with a similar attitude, then the natural
consequence would be our own majestic manifestations of
magnificent proportions.
Oh, and the splendid byproduct of such an attitude would be
more joy, fulfillment, peace, prosperity, and flow in the
process! As Abraham (through Jerry and Esther Hicks) calls
it, this is what ‘Getting into the Vortex’ really means.
We must remember that it’s the resistance to ‘hard work’
that makes work hard.
It’s the resistance to ‘taking too much time’ that makes
time stand still.
It’s the resistance to ‘effort’ that makes effort
exhausting.
When we are in the vortex, we ‘whistle while we work.’ We
put our heads down, pull up our bootstraps when necessary
and JUST DO WHAT MUST BE DONE with enthusiasm.
And, remember, as conscious creators, ALL you want to do is stay That’s the entire purpose of your every day
in that vortex.
intention – to BE in the vortex, the flow, the conscious
connection and awareness of Spirit Within as your one and
only source and supply.
If instead of the attitude, “this is hard; this takes too
much effort; this is too much of a struggle;’ you just put
out the acorns knowing that one of them, two of them, three
of them will eventually take off and take off big; become
that magnificent Oak tree that you really desire then your
big dreams as well as little desires would reliably
manifest.
If you seek to utilize the power of the law of attraction to
create magnificent success, I suggest you first seek to
create an attitude of persistence, commitment, resilience,
and most importantly a willingness to do what must be done
with ZEST and ENTHUSIASM! That’s actually one of my favorite
affirmations from Catherine Ponder’s book, The Dynamic Laws
of Prosperity: “I do what must be done with zest and
enthusiasm.”
When I was about seven months pregnant with my daughter,
Ashlyn, I was walking out of the gym when I saw shattered glass all over the ground. I remember thinking,
“Oh my! Someone broke something.” Well, I was right. What
they broke was my car window to steal my purse and
briefcase! Well, I can honestly remember thinking, “Ahh,
bummer. And oh well, let me just clean it up and move
along.” Then, I realized that in addition to my wallet,
money, and credit cards they had my Catherine Ponder book!
That’s when I got mad! You see, it was perfectly
highlighted, dog-eared, and every magical affirmation,
quote, and meaningful theory was pulled forth for me in my
margined shorthand notes.
Her simple affirmation, “I do what must be done with zest
and enthusiasm!” changed my entire outlook on ‘work’ and
‘getting ahead’ and ‘effort’. This was a new concept for me.
It’s safe to say that I’ve always been goal oriented and a
go-for-your-dreams kind of gal. However, I never did it with
zest and enthusiasm?!?! In fact, the ‘harder’ it was the
better my story. You know what I mean ‘my story’, right?!?
When I moved to California, fresh out of high school, barely
18, with no money, no place to live, no job, no relatives,
no car and only one friend, it was indeed ‘very hard.’ I can
remember eating peanut butter and crackers for -forever! I
walked to job interview after job interview to get a job. I
remember walking more than 8 hours one day just filling out
job applications!
And, hey – it’s a good story now. I get to share with my
children my own version of, “I walked 5 miles to school
every day in freezing snow, barefoot and uphill – both
ways.”
However, I didn’t do it with any kind of ‘zest and
enthusiasm’. In fact, I bet that had I come from a place of
zest, enthusiasm, willingness, openness, optimism and
cheerfulness, I would NOT have had to eat peanut butter
nearly as long and I bet someone would have hired me sooner!
That’s how the law of attraction works. I knew I would
eventually knock on the right door at the right time to get
a job, but I made it more difficult with my resistance to
just being at peace with the process. Maybe it’s because I
wanted the ’story’, or maybe it’s because I thought ‘life’s
supposed to be hard’, or ‘I’m not worthy of having it be
easy’. Or, maybe, it was hard because I fought what needed
to be done so fiercely.
So, how do YOU allow yourself to relax comfortably into the
10,000 seeds that must be planted?
You gain power and peace, by focusing on today’s seed and
paying attention to this moment, living in the now with zest
and enthusiasm.
Remember the allegory:
Question: How do you eat an Elephant? Answer: One bite at a
time.
By breaking down our goals into small, action oriented steps
we structure our pathway to success. This one simple mindset
(breaking big tasks down into little tasks) is recognized as
the secret to their success for many a millionaire &
billionaire.
For conscious creators who understand the concept of one
bite at a time add to this the intention: “One delicious
bite at a time” and you’ll suddenly feel more empowered,
energized, focused, and steadfast in the obtainment of your
goal.
Use the law of attraction to attract a mindset of, “I am
willing to do what must be done with Zest & Enthusiasm” and
refuse to entertain any longer the idea that you’ve been
dealt a tough hand that requires too much effort!
Use the power of your mind (& EFT!) to override any resistance to
doing what must be done and instead view the 10,000 seeds
that you must plant as simply, “what I do” and what you do
will be successful.
Please post comments, feedback, your visions and dreams:
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December 29, 2009
Leveraging the Power of Gratitude (it’s important!)
Category: Videos, law of attraction — Anisa @ 4:28 pm
Gratitude – Your Magic Wand for Magical Manifestations and Fantastic Conscious Creation Mastery!
Even though, I KNOW you’ve heard it over and over again… it’s time to get back to basics and launch this next year with the full force and power of gratitude.
For conscious creators, gratitude is a powerful magnetic force. Yet, many of us, dismiss it as too simple and easy to be that powerful and important. We may spend a few minutes here or there appreciating our blessings. We may even be one of those rare people that still send thank you notes. You may be fully grateful at this very moment considering it’s the holiday season and often gratitude abounds at this time of year. But, are you ready to make this gratitude a habit? Are you ready to put the power of appreciation and love into full force?
If you have been experiencing gratitude this holiday, then take a moment to look back at the last few weeks. If you felt grateful, then I bet you have also manifested some lovely experiences, unexpected gifts, and magical moments of possibility. If you haven’t spent time in appreciation, then I bet your holidays have been average at best, and for some, unfulfilling or even terrible.
I’m not a psychic, I just know the difference between what we manifest when we feel grattitude versus entitlement; Or, appreciation versus taking it for granted.
Video Tutorial 5: Part 1 of 2
Video Tutorial 5: Part 2 of 2
One friend, who had a particularly rough year, decided that December would be her month of Appreciation. She decided to appreciate the ‘job she hated’, appreciate the ‘ex-husband that she was fighting with’, and appreciate the ‘year of financial failures.’(These were her words about what she had been going through this last year.) It was meant to be her private experiment to either prove or disprove the power or impotence of gratitude.
Here’s the email she just sent me, “Dear Anisa, Thank you for my Appreciation Assignment! I never imagined that the simple act of intentionally appreciating even my worst nightmares could actually alter them so quickly. I still have a few challenges but positive possibilities are flying into my life like I’ve never seen before. I’ve had at least 3 amicable conversations with my ex (a world record), an opportunity to apply for a different department at work that I’m super excited about and my grandmother gave me $2000 for Christmas. She said it was ‘just because she felt like it’ and would not allow me to give it back to her. I had a hard time at first appreciating my challenges, (and still do sometimes) but just like you said would happen, the more I made myself find something to appreciate the better I felt. The better I felt the happier I’ve become and within the last three weeks my entire life seems to be on a new track. It looks like this next year will be fantastic. Thank you, thank you, thank you!” - Jules, NV.
If you’ve been a conscious creator for any length of time, then you’ve already employed gratitude intentionally with positive results. I want to challenge you today to make it a part of your every day experience, as opposed to random, flippant, or something you’ll eventually ‘get around to’.
Albert Schweitzer (1875 – 1965) was a theologian, musician, philosopher, and physician.
He wrote about ‘educating yourself for the feeling of gratitude’. Here’s the actual quote, “To educate yourself for the feeling of gratitude means to take nothing for granted, but to always seek out and value the kind that will stand behind the action. Nothing that is done for you is a matter of course. Everything originates in a will for the good, which is directed at you. Train yourself never to put off the word or action for the expression of gratitude.”
For me, the most important take-away comes from the words, “Train yourself never to put off the word or action for the expression of gratitude.”
TRAIN YOURSELF TO EXPRESS EVER-FLOWING GRATITUDE
What I’m asking you to do is more than say ‘thank you for dinner.’ I’m asking you to actually train yourself to NEVER put off the expression of gratitude. Yes, of course appreciate and share your appreciation with others but mostly I’m asking you to verbalize your Focused Appreciation to yourself for your life!
This means being grateful throughout your day for where you are, what you have, what you’ve experienced, and for the little items, actions, and blessings such as air, food, water, sunlight, smiles, lessons, growth, etc. that come your way.
Abraham, through Jerry and Esther Hicks, talks about ‘getting and staying in the Vortex’ to master conscious creation and the law of attraction. Here’s a quick citation from their book, “Ask and It is Given”:
“Every time you appreciate something, every time you praise something, every time you feel good about something, you are telling the Universe: “More of this, please.” You need never make another verbal statement of this intent, and if you are mostly in a state of appreciation, all good things will flow to you.
“We are often asked, Isn‘t love a better word than appreciation? Isn‘t love more descriptive of the Non- Physical Energy? And we say that love and appreciation are really the same vibration. Some use the word gratitude, or a feeling of thankfulness, but all of these words are descriptive of Well-Being.
“A desire to appreciate is a very good first step, and then as you find more things that you would like to say “Thank you” about, it quickly gains momentum. And as you want to feel appreciation, you attract something to appreciate. And as you appreciate it, then you attract something else to appreciate, until, in time, you are experiencing a Rampage of Appreciation.” - “Ask and It Is Given”, pg. 146 by Jerry and Esther Hicks, www.Abraham-Hicks.com
For Power Creators, your assignment is to review your Top 6 goals for Life and your top Two Priority Goals for right now and search, identify, and then claim all of the aspects about your current life that deserve your appreciation. These are the items that are meaningful contributors to your Life Goals and Current Intentions (including challenging lessons and obstacles.)
Getting into the habit of appreciation, the flow of gratitude daily and staying there as long as possible, will supercharge your manifestation abilities and if EVER there was a turbo-booster, a rocket fuel to MAKE your dreams happen faster – appreciation is it!
Starting small and working up to ’staying in loving appreciation’:
Step One: Remember that it takes 21 days to build a habit.
Step Two: Write down daily 3 to 10 things you appreciate. (I do mine twice a day – morning and night. I have a gratitude and a victory log by my bed.)
Step Three: Practice attaching the ‘exercise of appreciation’ by associating meaningless tasks with your
‘appreciation time’. For example, you could make shower time, when your in your car, walking up the stairs etc., your special appreciation time. Attach the intention by verbalizing, “From this moment forward ALL Shower TIME is Appreciation Time. Then, of course, you’ll want to write yourself reminders and make it a habit with a 21 day commitment.
Copyright, 2009, CreataVision Enterprises, Anisa Aven.
Available for reprint rights so long as the previous
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December 23, 2009
How to Create Powerful Living Visions
Category: Videos, law of attraction — Anisa @ 2:57 pm
For the Power Creators Club (Anisa Aven’s conscious creation group coaching program), tutorial #4, parts 1 and 2.
Learn to create positive habits by practicing and imagining your ideal Living Vision for 21 days:
Part 1 of 2:
Part 2 of 2:
To join us, please visit: http://www.PCC.CreataVision.com and reserve your spot now.
To review the first three Power Creators Club Videos, visit here.
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