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October 12, 2006

Using EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) to Attract Your Ideal Relationship

Category: Creative Manifesting — Anisa @ 7:58 am

If you are in a relationship that isn’t truly fulfilling but you want it to be or you are ready to get over the psychological obstacles that keep you from attracting what you want, then consider the eCourse: Use the Power of EFT and LOA to Attract Your Ideal Mate…. get rid of the ‘reasons’ that lie in your subconscious and you’ll be left with the potential, possibility, and positive knowingness that you can truly have the relationship of your dreams.

From an EFT relationship client:

Q: Thanks Anisa. I will go through the course as per your system, but I know my what main issues are. Hopefully they can be addressed as they are the ones that always sabotage my relationships from becoming lifelong. I generally don’t have difficulty attracting women into my life…. but once they come into my life, they don’t stay too long and always leave me. These issues are also the ones that cause conflict and lack of harmony.

They are:
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1) Conflict of values
2) Expectations from the partner to adapt to those values
3) Anger, frustration etc
4) Lack of harmony

-Thanks, A. B.

Hi A.B.,

The eCourse has 8 weeks worth of exercises that prompt you with questions designed to help you find your unique limiting thoughts and beliefs. Set forth an intention to address anything that comes up that is even 1 degree less than “I am an unlimited child of God and therefore meant to have my ideal relationship.”

Here are a few suggestions.

First, let’s get rid of the reality beliefs:
Even though ….

Even though my relationships never last and all women leave me, I deeply and completely love and accept myself…. And, what if I could have a long lasting relationship with the right woman now?

Negative Reminder:
IE: This belief that all women leave me.
OE: all women leave me
UE: I can’t help the fact that I’m never going to be compatible long term.
BN: my relationships don’t ever last long
Ch: no matter who I meet and how well we get along at first, in the end they will just end up leaving.
CB: I can’t have a long lasting love
UA: The next woman I love is bound to leave me too.
BN: They never stay too long.
H: They always leave me.

Positive Implant:
IE: What if I were unlimited?
OE: What if I could have a long lasting, forever love?
UE: What if it weren’t true that they will just leave me?
BN: What if the right woman were in my life now?
Ch: What if I enjoyed a long, secure love life?
CB: I choose to attract and accept a permanent love.
UA: I am willing and open to love fully and expect to be loved the same.
BN: I boldly and courageously choose a secure, loving, eternal relationship now.
H: I am so grateful to now have the eternal relationship I desire and give thanks.

You also mentioned the following as identified ‘reasons’ for relationship troubles:

1) Conflict of values
2) Expectations from the partner to adapt to those values
3) Anger, frustration etc
4) Lack of harmony

A few suggestions for how to use EFT for these limiting beliefs about love:

Even though I only attract women who I have a conflict of values with…
Even though I can’t attract a woman that doesn’t want to change me…
Even though I refuse to change and adapt to values that I don’t like and this means all of my relationships will fail…
Even though I only get anger and frustration in my relationships…
Even though I’m angry and frustrated and don’t know what to do about it….
Even though I’m so tired of the lack of harmony in my relationships…
Even though I’m afraid that I will always have a lack of harmony in my life and relationships…
Even though I can’t even imagine what a healthy, harmonious relationship looks like (let alone believe that I can have it)…
Even though I’m afraid I will never have a long-term, secure love and it really angers and hurts me…

Your work is to keep tapping consistently and persistently until you can look back on the above ‘issues’ and truly say, “that is simply a non-issue. I feel nothing but peace and joyous expectation about my love life, my past loves, and my future relationships!”

Continue to work the exercises in the EFT/LOA Relationship eCourse… you’ll uncover more hurt, anger, and beliefs to release. With every layer of limitation that you eliminate, you’ll set yourself one step closer to the consciousness of True love that you really want. Keep up the great work!
Create a great day!

Anisa Aven
For those unfamiliar with EFT, you can download the free EFT manual here or view my demo here.

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