We were born with the unlimited potential to intentionally create (use the law of attraction) to manifest all of our heart's desires. Together, as Conscious Leaders guided by the Divine, we have the Mind Power necessary to co-create a sustainable, harmonious, peaceful, and prosperous world.  And, we can do this while also attracting and creating a passionate, loving, rich, healthy life with all of our personal dreams fulfilled.

Can we use the Law of Attraction to Create something for another? (And, is it right?!?)

Category: law of attraction — Anisa @

Q: Dear Anisa,

I have a question that I have been meaning to ask for a
while. How can we, and should we, influence other people’s
healing? To what extent is it successful to help others when
they are unable to help themselves? For example, if we see
that someone is struggling with the same issue for a very
long time, but in different settings, is it OK for us to
visualize them getting over the problem, or use surrogate
EFT without them knowing? When do we know it’s ok to help
others, especially when we know they are suffering, versus
when should we let things be?

Thank you for any insights.- Aida.

A: Dear Aida,
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Thank you for standing strong within your spiritual
integrity and wanting to do the right thing.  On our
spiritual journey towards higher consciousness, there are
definite soul-ponderings that are representative of positive
growth.  This question, “is it appropriate to meddle with
another’s spiritual journey?” is one of them.

I acknowledge you and anyone that aspires to be congruent
with both your spiritual intentions and your physical
actions.   Bravo!

The questions we want answers to are:

What if we ‘create’ something that is not aligned with their
soul’s desire or their life’s purpose?  Who are we to think
that we know what is ‘right’ for another person?  And,
shouldn’t we ask permission before assuming we can do
surrogate EFT for another, even though we know they are
hurting?

Before addressing the intricate nuances around our spiritual
integrity, I’d like to make it very clear:

Yes! It’s unconditionally appropriate to hold another in
their highest good through prayer, visualization, surrogate
EFT or any other form of love-guided remote assistance or
healing modality.

(Side-note:  What’s surrogate EFT?   When emotional freedom
technique is performed remotely for another’s benefit, this
may or may not include their knowledge of the EFT activity.

Search ‘Surrogate EFT’ here for more information.)
Understand that the actions and the results of loving
prayer, visualization, and surrogate EFT are interchangeable

and identical.  Thus, if one believes that it’s okay to pray then it’s absolutely acceptable to visualize or perform
surrogate EFT.

If you ask permission to pray for someone, then ask
permission to visualize or do surrogate EFT.  This is a
personal choice.  For me, I believe that as an energetic
being that is actually ONE with ALL (including ALL humans on
the planet), permission to send love is inherent in the
nature of unity.

Having said this, the question, “…but, what if we create
something that is not aligned with what they want” is based
on an erroneous assumption.  The question stems from a
misguided idea that it’s possible to create in another’s
experience something mal-aligned with their soul’s
vibration.  If, in fact, it were possible to over-ride
another’s vibration in an entirely contradictory manner then
everything we believe about ‘the Universal Laws being
consistent and predictable’ would be false.

We cannot create in another person’s experience anything
contrary to their personal vibration.  Thus, we can
visualize incessantly for their healing but if they are
stalwartly aligned with the experiences associated with
illness, our prayers (visualizations/EFT/intentions) will
not budge the outcome. This is, of course, Divinely Perfect.

On the other hand, if we visualize one’s health and
wholeness and this is aligned (a vibrational match) with
their soul’s desire, our mutual intentions will spark a
beautiful explosion of healing possibilities.

Imagine a child who has fallen off their bike.  Would we
stand aside because it was ‘their learning process to scrape
their knees’ or would we lend a hand, help dust them off,
and encourage them to try again?

Visualizing or performing surrogate EFT for another is not
dissimilar to lending an invisible hand.

I can hear the stirrings now… “but, how do we know what’s
right for them? And, what makes us the authority on what
another person should feel, do, or experience?”

The answer is, we don’t know and we will never be the
authority regarding what another should experience.

The good news, however, is that it doesn’t matter!   Since
we can’t create in their experience without their
‘vibrational agreement’, if our ‘dream’ for them isn’t
‘right’, it cannot influence their experience anyway!

Now, before anyone sends me ‘nasty emails’ saying I’m
promoting reckless spiritual intervention and unauthorized
psychic intrusions by ‘metaphysical know-it-alls’, please
read on.

As we grow spiritually, we begin to feel compelled to choose
higher level intentions in all we do.  This simply makes
living spiritually and in the flow a more accessible
experience.

Thus, in order to be aligned with our OWN highest level of
consciousness, I suggest asking the question, “what is my
real intention?”

Is my intention to influence another’s situation for my
personal gain?  Or, is my intention to send forth God’s love
for the highest and best outcome for all parties involved?

For the sake of conversation, let’s say you have a friend
that owes you money.  You are angry, hurt, and frustrated
with their lack of integrity and their inability to hold to
their agreement.   You also know that your friend feels
terrible about it.

You could choose to visualize them ‘paying you back’ and if
this is aligned, it would support the process in a positive
way.  If not, your visualization would go nowhere.

Additionally, if you are attached to the outcome, you would
actually hinder your financial prosperity in a negative way.

On the other hand, if you would visualize ‘receiving and
experiencing your Divine Abundance in wonderful ways’ while
forgiving your friend and detaching from the outcome, your
visualization would be spiritually aligned with greater
potentiality.   This in turn yields a higher consciousness
vibration which means you’ll manifest what you really want
faster!

Now let’s suppose you choose to do surrogate EFT. (I’ll
share more about how to use surrogate EFT next week.)

Surrogate EFT might look like – Sore-sport or Karate Chop
point:

• “I, friend’s name, am a loser for not paying my friend back.
• “You,friend’s name, are a worthless loser because you hurt me and made me struggle financially.
• “He/She, friend’s name, is a loser because they didn’t pay me back.”

(Followed by reminder statements and points using I, You,
He/She, **This is just one example.   There are many phrases
we could choose here.)

It may seem as though the intention is to influence the
situation for personal gain.  However, if we look a little
closer, you’ll discover that the REAL healing will be
personal and may or may not influence the other person in
any way.

You see, even with an intention to influence the situation
for our personal gain, the results will be the experience of
greater peace for us.

The reason for this is twofold.  First, I repeat – we cannot
create in another’s experience something not aligned with
their vibration/intention.  And, second, because EFT has a
magical way of harmonizing our emotional connection to the
Truth that ‘all is well all the time.”

By intending to be intentional and conscious in all we do,
we will ask the question, “what is my real intention with
this prayer, visualization or surrogate EFT?”

If the answer is, “I want them to do what I want them to do”
then forgive yourself, do the EFT anyway and know that the
healing work you are doing is more for you, than for them.

If the answer is, “I want to support my loved one in
experiencing their Divine Birthright of absolute Love,
Prosperity, Health, Beauty, Joy, Wisdom, and Wholeness.”

Then do the surrogate EFT and release your attachment to the
outcome, knowing that whatever happens, it’s always Divinely
Ordered.

Divine Order – how wonderful that we simply can’t get around
it!?!?

I know I haven’t answered the question, “To what extent is
it successful?” Let me say, in a nutshell, surrogate EFT has
been one of the most profoundly effective tools I’ve ever
used.  I have witnessed surrogate EFT miracles that are
asbolutely unexplainable otherwise.  I promise this is not
an overstatement -surrogate EFT is nothing short of
miraculous.

Now that I have your curiosity piqued, I’ll address ‘how to
use surrogate EFT’ in my next Quick Manifesting Morsel.
Pstt… it’s absolutely the most fascinating and mind-
blowing technique you’ll ever learn!

Please share your Surrogate EFT experiences with me!  We can’t wait to hear – submit your comments below.

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